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Diary of a Poor Person aged 46 1/2
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hi mrsc - hope you get some decent kip soon!Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250 -
omg last night went to bed at 9pm, woke up 10 pm, 11.30 pm [mad friend called !] 3 am, 5 am and by 7am was like a zombie...
:-(Highest Debt £581,000 Nov 08 and now owe nothing! yes really! I have learnt my lesson the hard way!
:heart2:Ebay Challenge 2011 - Still supporting from afar!
Long haulers supporters DFW #2230 -
Better luck tonight, try some lavender.1st debt - Next [STRIKE]£583.32[/STRIKE] [STRIKE]£408.71 [/STRIKE] £0 :j
2nd debt - MBNA - £6,618.52
First in many many to go - baby steps and all that!
First lump sum to go - fingers crossed!
08/06/09 - [STRIKE]£11,497.68[/STRIKE] NOW - £9,757.75
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no no im still up working................................... im like a shrivelled up old lady..................... and im not old well relatively speaking ;-SHighest Debt £581,000 Nov 08 and now owe nothing! yes really! I have learnt my lesson the hard way!
:heart2:Ebay Challenge 2011 - Still supporting from afar!
Long haulers supporters DFW #2230 -
oh dear !
Hope you get some decent rest soon - off to bed myself now!Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250 -
Hope you've managed to catch up on sleep over the weekend and are back to normal(ish) now.1st debt - Next [STRIKE]£583.32[/STRIKE] [STRIKE]£408.71 [/STRIKE] £0 :j
2nd debt - MBNA - £6,618.52
First in many many to go - baby steps and all that!
First lump sum to go - fingers crossed!
08/06/09 - [STRIKE]£11,497.68[/STRIKE] NOW - £9,757.75
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hope you are more rested now!Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250 -
hi all... well im majorly strung out... actually realised that i have no one actually that has time enough for me to sit down and talk to them about my worries/life/dilemmas... thats sad isnt it?
everyone i know is so busy with their lives and problems that you cant actually say ... look will you just sit and listen to me for a bit and offer some advice?
wish it wasnt xmas... cant be bothered.Highest Debt £581,000 Nov 08 and now owe nothing! yes really! I have learnt my lesson the hard way!
:heart2:Ebay Challenge 2011 - Still supporting from afar!
Long haulers supporters DFW #2230 -
:grouphug:Sorry about dodgy icon but thought you could do with a hug. I know it's nowhere near the same but WE are here to help and to listen and to reassure you. I know it is horrible when you get down and it is easier to try and not post but it might help you and feel that someone is here.
Have you tried to talk to anyone in the real world? My experience is that the putting on of a mask of everything is ok has become automatic and so people don't realise when we are crying out for someone to take notice and ask if we're ok. Maybe if you did actually say "I need to talk now" then there is someone who will be there without hesitation - busy or not. I know if my friend/family asked me then I would be there.
In the meantime big hugs and just remember although Xmas is supposed to be a happy/festive time, it's also stressful and expensive and everything feels 10 x worse.
xx1st debt - Next [STRIKE]£583.32[/STRIKE] [STRIKE]£408.71 [/STRIKE] £0 :j
2nd debt - MBNA - £6,618.52
First in many many to go - baby steps and all that!
First lump sum to go - fingers crossed!
08/06/09 - [STRIKE]£11,497.68[/STRIKE] NOW - £9,757.75
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hi mrsc if you can find someone to be real with - then that would be great - if not perhaps try gp or counsellor?Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £24.3K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 30.1/£127.5K target 23.6% 29/7/25
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.8K updated 29/7/250
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