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MONEY MORAL DILEMMA. Should Tina lend to close mate Stina?
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I'd only lend to a friend if I had a suitable collateral. When I've got the last few hundred pounds off my best mate, I'm going to let his girlfriend out of my basement.
(NOTE!!! THIS POST IS A JOKE!!! I HAVE NOT ACTUALLY KIDNAPPED ANYONE!!!)0 -
One possibility would be to lend her a portion of the full amount (say £500) with an agreed repayment schedule. That way it will establish if she is a reliable repayer without risking too much AND as she will be paying less interest she will be able to reduce the capital amount quicker. When the £500 is paid off, the exercise could be repeated, possibly with a greater amount.
But don't feel obliged just because the money is available - too many people have come a cropper trying to help out, and lost a friendship into the bargain.0
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