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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    lennymfo wrote: »
    Mrs S, sorry he's being such a wanchor with you. I would entice him up with an offer of sex and depravity he cant resist. Personally I would promise him some girl on girl and a no holds barred session, tie him up and take loads of photos :D Perhaps one of the girlies could volunteer their services, I'll even dress up as a woman if you like :D Dont let the B astard get you down. Hugs x
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

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  • pepe2008
    pepe2008 Posts: 5,158 Forumite
    lennymfo wrote: »
    Mrs S, sorry he's being such a wanchor with you. I would entice him up with an offer of sex and depravity he cant resist. Personally I would promise him some girl on girl and a no holds barred session, tie him up and take loads of photos :D Perhaps one of the girlies could volunteer their services, I'll even dress up as a woman if you like :D Dont let the B astard get you down. Hugs x

    Bucket of water for Lenny!
    :D:D stay wonky :D:D

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  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    pepe2008 wrote: »
    Did she take the lamp-post home, or did they manage to prise it out of her hands?

    sorry Annie if you read this but :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: Good girl for having such a good :beer: time - hope you come to Leeds :T
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    lennymfo wrote: »
    Mrs S, sorry he's being such a wanchor with you. I would entice him up with an offer of sex and depravity he cant resist. Personally I would promise him some girl on girl and a no holds barred session, tie him up and take loads of photos :D Perhaps one of the girlies could volunteer their services, I'll even dress up as a woman if you like :D Dont let the B astard get you down. Hugs x
    That's why he was coming anyway :confused: :rotfl:



    I'm joking of course :whistle: - in fact I'm actually kind of impressed that he doesn't want to cheat. One of the (many) things that people have said to me is that they think he was cheating on me anyway (when we were together), so I'm sort of relieved that they are wrong, and he IS capable of monogamy.

    But I'm very angry about the way he just dropped me (on Friday I told him I was a bit nervous and though one of us would back out - he reassured me I was wrong and neither of us would because we are such good friends).

    I'm also very angry that he thinks I would leap into bed with a man who I know is in a relationship.

    That might sound weird bearing in mind how we met, but we became close because both our marriages were ending; our marriages didn't end because we met. If you count kissing as cheating (and I do) then yes I did technically cheat on Stu, but I stopped it from going any further until we were both single.

    So why suddenly have I become this boyfriend-stealing whore???? :mad:
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,703 Ambassador
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    afternoon all. Was very tired at work and a bit achey after my various modes of transport yesterday and much bag dragging. Good job my social calendar is now clear until June 20th - I need to recover, I'm not used to social occasions!

    Snaggles - I can assure you that you are not a boyfriend-snatching slag.....


    Hope u are ok BB.
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    Gemmzie~hope u feel bewtter soon :)
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  • System
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    That's why he was coming anyway :confused: :rotfl:



    I'm joking of course :whistle: - in fact I'm actually kind of impressed that he doesn't want to cheat. One of the (many) things that people have said to me is that they think he was cheating on me anyway (when we were together), so I'm sort of relieved that they are wrong, and he IS capable of monogamy.

    But I'm very angry about the way he just dropped me (on Friday I told him I was a bit nervous and though one of us would back out - he reassured me I was wrong and neither of us would because we are such good friends).

    I'm also very angry that he thinks I would leap into bed with a man who I know is in a relationship.

    That might sound weird bearing in mind how we met, but we became close because both our marriages were ending; our marriages didn't end because we met. If you count kissing as cheating (and I do) then yes I did technically cheat on Stu, but I stopped it from going any further until we were both single.

    So why suddenly have I become this boyfriend-stealing whore???? :mad:
    Ah roger that. Have I missed something, who called you a boyfriend stealing !!!!!?
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  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    So why suddenly have I become this boyfriend-stealing whore???? :mad:

    because he is trying to justify his own actions by blaming you. He is using you as an excuse for the way he is acting (and will probably always act whoever he is in a relationship with).
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

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  • pepe2008
    pepe2008 Posts: 5,158 Forumite
    I hope that I mis-read your post.........you're not blaming yourself in any way are you Snaggles? You shouldn't be.
    And dont go making his excuses for him. Monogamy just means 'one at a time'.
    :D:D stay wonky :D:D

    ....one-way ticket to Portugal booked !
  • System
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    And how does everyone get the swear words through the filters?
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    lennymfo wrote: »
    Ah roger that. Have I missed something, who called you a boyfriend stealing !!!!!?
    No-one called me that, but it's how he has made me feel, saying that he can't see me this Friday because he doesn't want to cheat.

    As we are supposedly friends, and there was never any pressure to leap into bed together on Friday, what he is saying is that we wont be able to control ourselves and we would inevitably have sex......so in my eyes, that means he must think I'm a complete tramp who has no qualms about sleeping with a man who is in a potentially serious relationship.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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