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  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    it's that rollercoaster we've talked about Snags on Saturday and before and that you know what to expect from his shed headedness because it's cyclical.....
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

    Snags, he is not a friend you need right now love.....:grouphug:
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    it's that rollercoaster we've talked about Snags on Saturday and before and that you know what to expect from his shed headedness because it's cyclical.....
    I think this is something different though - there's a BIT of that going on (because last week he was literally all over me, being so sweet, so romantic, so caring....this week, suddenly rather distant). I was used to the rollercoaster and knew how to deal with it.

    But realising that this is how he sees me is something else entirely. Of all the things he has done, this is the most hurtful of all.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »

    I am angry and very hurt - not only has he no respect for our friendship, as he is so willing to drop me for a(nother) girl, but apparently I am a complete slag with no morals too. :mad: :mad: :mad:

    He obviously thinks people are the same as him...
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    I think this is something different though - there's a BIT of that going on (because last week he was literally all over me, being so sweet, so romantic, so caring....this week, suddenly rather distant). I was used to the rollercoaster and knew how to deal with it.

    But realising that is how he sees me is something else entirely. Of all the things he has done, this is the most hurtful of all.

    He is playing you like a fiddle.....he knows which buttons to press.
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Snags,

    I am not going to say anything. But remember I love you and you're welcome to come see me this weekend if you still want to do something. Not got much planned and we could go for a run etc
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    yes, sorry *sammy hangs head in shame* but I get quite cross......

    I am just popping into town for a bit.........have something to do.....

    :oinvolves a milk bottle and a can of petrol.:o
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • pepe2008
    pepe2008 Posts: 5,158 Forumite
    Snaggles wrote: »
    I think this is something different though - there's a BIT of that going on (because last week he was literally all over me, being so sweet, so romantic, so caring....this week, suddenly rather distant). I was used to the rollercoaster and knew how to deal with it.

    But realising that is how he sees me is something else entirely. Of all the things he has done, this is the most hurtful of all.

    Oh Snaggles! I was surprised that you were talking about him in the way you were on Sat night/ Sunday Morning but I didn't want to pry too much as we were having such a good time.
    Dont put up with any cr*p this time around! We (men) can be such !!!!!! at times.........always thinking that theres someone better/easier/more gullible/less needy than the one we are with........conveniently forgetting the feelings of all involved, including ourselves.
    :D:D stay wonky :D:D

    ....one-way ticket to Portugal booked !
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    ^^^^^what pepe said
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    snags... seriously sweets you need to kick this 'god's gift to women' into line. Cheeky git. I hate to say it, but he isn't your friend, no friend treats you that way. He is treating you as his reserve woman. I can bet he thinks you are so in love with him he will be able to come over when he pleases and you will fall into bed with him, because you are so grateful for his attention. If another offer comes along he will drop you and make you feel as if you should get a life and stop bothering him... speaking from experience??? me?? well yeah and it totally sucks.

    I may be way off and totally out of order but that's how I see it and you are worth a million times more than he could ever offer.
    :A
    :A
    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
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