Help daughter being bullied in school

poe.tuesday

I'm with you there broonbear - if the schools etc don't do anything then you have no option but to take things into your own hands - I know I would as sometimes the only way to speak to these types of people is in a language that they understand

spenderblender

her dad did want to go round there but, we don't know where they live and is typical if we ask around then it will let them know we are coming and be prepared. She also won't move schools as one of the lads moved because of bullying and is now bullied even more at the new school because the kids there were told why he had moved.
Good idea about the doctor as we have not long been to the doctor as she is also suffering badly with acne which they have also picked up on so maybe that is worth doing as you say.

poe.tuesday

she shouldn't move schools either, she has done nothing wrong

hopefully the school will take action especially if you have a screen grab of the threats

the best thing is for her to be confident in her abilities to deal with them, bullies don't ever go after people who stand up to them, they only ever go after people who in their minds are victims - she does not have to have a fight with them but if she shows her fear then will carry on, they will soon get bored of her if she does not react to them or is scared of them - easier said than done I know but the self defense classes will help her with that aspect

it's such a shame that girls are like this - they are an embarrassment to womankind