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Debts in the City. A Modern Girls Guide to Life in 2009. My story.

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  • rubyslipper
    rubyslipper Posts: 969 Forumite
    Morning ladies!

    Princess! You gorgeous little kitten, you! Am so thrilled to hear your news! Is there a website or something we can log in to and vote?? Wow we could have an actual beauty queen in our midst!

    Swinstie and Rupe - boo hiss to viruses you poor things. I hate that 'pheasants and machinery in the head' feeling of a virus. All prickly and hot. Have some soothing honey and lemon if you can and if you can't just have some chocolate. It might not help the virus but it'll cheer you up. Hope you both make it through the day.

    Rosered - I'm sorry to hear you're having a tough time. I really hope you're OK and that it's nothing to do with the friend you've mentioned before. Welcome back though chick - we missed you xxx

    I spent last night receiving email threats from psycho XBF. Think it might be time to go to the police but am a wuss so may well just decide to hide under my duvet instead like when I was a kid!

    xxx
    Sealed Pot Challenge 2009 # 650 (target £150)
    Long Haul Supporters # 158 debt free 2014
    Member of the Blondettes :beer:
    Debt Free Date: doesn't bear thinking about!
  • rosered1963
    rosered1963 Posts: 1,160 Forumite
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    HI Ruby!

    Sorry to hear about yet more contact from XBF. If you are quite sure you never want him back, why nottry to get a restraining (non- molestation) order - it will make him realise you are serious. I believe its a civil order, not a criminal one, but you have to go thru CAB or a solicitor. If there is no implied threat in his contact with you, it may be harder to get one than if there were implied threat. (God, I sound like a solicitor). You could always think about it. Meanwhile, I would keep a record of all emails, any texts or if he is hanging about looking for you.

    Regarding what I have been dealing with - no, its not my terminally ill friend - she is doing ok in herself - thanks so much for asking.
    RR X
  • Ruby - I think you should seriously look into a restraingin order or something.....have you told his family what he's doing?? They may be able to help him in some way.

    Rosie - Sorry to hear you've been having a rough time of it, if you need someone to chat to you can pm me, I'm a good listener, also the sympathetic noises are a speciality of mine:D:D on the upside glad to hear your friend is doing ok:D

    Those who are poorly sick, if you do have honey and lemon splash some whisky in it...works wonders:D Also chocolate is a must, I'm sure it has medicinal properties:p
    Debt [STRIKE]£52,656.60[/STRIKE]_pale_£41273.42:)
    DFD-Jan 2014 :D
    One poll-£14.85 TAB-£15.80 Butlins-£16
  • ebonylight
    ebonylight Posts: 838 Forumite
    Rosey good to hear from you, hope your shizzle is all sorted and you're ok. Feel free to PM if you want some extra love hun :)

    Ruby your ex is winding ME up and I've never met him! He needs to stop emailing when he says he will! I agree with Rosey you need to do something drastic, it seems he won't take no for an answer and that is just creepy. Be strong and show him you're boss!

    I have no biscuits again today but I do have Apple shoe laces :rotfl:I'm such a child!!
    End of 2010 I was £8,007.66 in debt :(
    Today's total: £7,297.06 :o
    Member of The Blondettes:beer:
  • ebonylight
    ebonylight Posts: 838 Forumite
    Ruby - I think you should seriously look into a restraingin order or something.....have you told his family what he's doing?? They may be able to help him in some way.

    Rosie - Sorry to hear you've been having a rough time of it, if you need someone to chat to you can pm me, I'm a good listener, also the sympathetic noises are a speciality of mine:D:D on the upside glad to hear your friend is doing ok:D

    Those who are poorly sick, if you do have honey and lemon splash some whisky in it...works wonders:D Also chocolate is a must, I'm sure it has medicinal properties:p
    I think we are psychicly linked, Catherine, that's the second time we have posted identical posts :D
    End of 2010 I was £8,007.66 in debt :(
    Today's total: £7,297.06 :o
    Member of The Blondettes:beer:
  • rosered1963
    rosered1963 Posts: 1,160 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Thanks Catherine H xxxxxxxxxxxx :)
  • ebonylight wrote: »
    I think we are psychicly linked, Catherine, that's the second time we have posted identical posts :D


    Ooooo Freaky deaky!!!!! :D:D We'll have to try and test our psychic abilities somehow:rotfl:

    OMG apple shoelaces............you have no idea how much I am salivating right now:drool:
    Don't think I've had those since I was 14!
    Debt [STRIKE]£52,656.60[/STRIKE]_pale_£41273.42:)
    DFD-Jan 2014 :D
    One poll-£14.85 TAB-£15.80 Butlins-£16
  • tasha-debt
    tasha-debt Posts: 974 Forumite
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    edited 8 April 2009 at 11:46AM
    Hi all,

    My internet at home has crashed so will have to try again tonight to post some before and after photos of my hair.

    Ruby - I think now is the time to take some action, either speak to the CAB or maybe call his parents and ask them to talk to him!!! I once had to call an ex's parents when he owed me £500 and I had not received it, told them if they didnt get him to give it back to me I would take him to the small claim courts. Got a cheque through the post a week later.

    Rosey - Hope your ok, watching Mary Popins whilst eating a mountain of chocolate always makes me feel less stressed..... I love to sing along (very very bad voice) to a spoon full of sugur......

    Ebs - I love shoe laces, especially the strawberry ones.

    Princess - Well done you georgous young thing, teh footballers will be tripping over themselves to date you. Post the link I would def send a text for you.

    Its my Birthday on Monday, im going to be 27.......... it feels very bad being 27, in debt and living back at home........ by 28 things had better be better..... living in my detached house, with my personal hair dresser and stylist on hand and lots of shoes and handbags in my walk in wardrobe.

    xxx

    I’m back and more determined than ever!!!!!
  • rosered1963
    rosered1963 Posts: 1,160 Forumite
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    Ebony - thanks very much :) Ebony and Catherine H are obviously psychic twins. x
  • ahh thanks girls you sure are lovely to me, im gonna feel muchos embaressed when i loooooose.:o

    anyway if any of you ahve free texts to spare pretty please vote for me and ill send you virtual hobnobs to say thanks :D

    Ok, please dont tell me off for this ML

    http://www2.northamptontoday.co.uk/misscobblers/missnorthamptontown.pdf

    ah ebbs you eat the best things, im having cucumber and black pepper sarnies, yum yum im posh!!!

    i hope your ok rosered *hug*

    and ruby you need to go to the police its not fair on you him making you feel like that, *also a hug*

    happy birthday for monday tasha as i wont be able to say so coz ill be livin la vida skegness xxx


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