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Broken Engagement

My husband's nephew has just been dumped by his fiancee of just over a year. He spent over £1k on the engagement ring and she won't return it to him.

Please can someone advise how he can go about getting the ring back - can he make a claim through the small claims court and if so, is it easy enough to do on his own. He lives in England.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    Whilst courtesy and tradition dictates the ring ought to be returned then I don't think legally it has to I'm afraid...
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  • Auzelia
    Auzelia Posts: 806 Forumite
    Why would she be expected to return the ring?

    (seriously, I didnt know you had to)
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    no legal obligation at all - it was a gift from him to her.
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

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  • Krystaltips
    Krystaltips Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    The ring is a contract to marriage... If marraige doesn't occur then she should actually return the ring...

    I saw a case on judge Judy once... But not sure if it would work in the UK courts system...
    A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...
    Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.

  • My husband's nephew has just been dumped by his fiancee of just over a year. He spent over £1k on the engagement ring and she won't return it to him.

    Please can someone advise how he can go about getting the ring back - can he make a claim through the small claims court and if so, is it easy enough to do on his own. He lives in England.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

    threaten to stick some naughty photos of her up on the internet?
  • Felicity
    Felicity Posts: 1,064 Forumite
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    I agree, sorry! It was a gift from him to her.

    She should of course return it morally, if she is not the type of person that would then he should probably be glad the relationship is over IMO!

    If it is any help, the ring (2nd hand) would be worth nowhere near that now. Rings plumet in value as soon as they are purchased.
  • Burlesque_Babe
    Burlesque_Babe Posts: 17,547 Forumite
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    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • rosie-lee
    rosie-lee Posts: 1,134 Forumite
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    My sister kept all 3 of hers!!!:rotfl:
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    In the eyes of the law i am afraid it is seen as a gift so he has little chance of getting it back
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • threaten to stick some naughty photos of her up on the internet?


    She's already done that herself - her facebook profile is an eye opener!
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