MSE Pregnancy Club V

tarajayne

Sami_Bee wrote: »

i know I'm a bit young but I'll be you two's mum if u like I've always wanted 4 kids!

I find it really hard to comprehend having not experienced anything like it so I hope u 2 can talk to each other about it.
Have either of you ever had any counselling for it? Might help xx

Loads of counselling in recent years. Did help in some ways but even with the counseller I tend to say what I think I'm expected to rather than the truth. Main reason I went was detemination that this relationship would work as none of my others have. I've actually been with OH 6 years 8 months which I am so chuffed with, hence my questions earlier. Not in my nature to try so hard with relationships, the minute I think I might get let down I'm off. I so needed to grow up.:o

searching_me

sami awww bless ya ok then... can you bake cookies? ..
i actually tried to but its was 3 months waiting list its been 4 years since that happened and ive sort of dealt with it my concussion is it is who my mother is money and men mean more to her and always have so i dont have contact with her and from her i learnt to give my DD and this mister bubs all i can i work part time so although was have the money to pay bills (things can get a little tight) but so i always have time to spend with DD and put her to bed... i think my side effects of it i do everything myself so that i dont need anyone took OH along time to break that wall were i deal with everything ... even now i still do it dont mean to just who i am now x

Sami_Bee

och I hate blooming Ray Quinn :mad: why is he so good

tiamai_d

tarajayne wrote: »

tia, I've told my OH he's having the snip after as there is no way I'm having more. Told him I'm gonna watch, might even video it so that I can threaten to play it when his mates come round.:p

Ah my DH decided (and has requesed from his GP) the snip because he beat the pill twice and shot the coil out!! :rotfl:

However he has witnessed me bring a man to tears with a swift unexpected punch to the crotch, and he still married me!

tiamai_d

How'd you other pregnant ladies stay up late at night? I've been ready for bed since 8pm! Need to be in bed by 10pm or I am so tred and sickly in the morning! tygj

ggggg

DH having a wee mess about there... Bed time for me, still not done the ironing, sod it, will get DH to do it in the morning.

Sami_Bee

tarajayne wrote: »

Loads of counselling in recent years. Did help in some ways but even with the counseller I tend to say what I think I'm expected to rather than the truth. Main reason I went was detemination that this relationship would work as none of my others have. I've actually been with OH 6 years 8 months which I am so chuffed with, hence my questions earlier. Not in my nature to try so hard with relationships, the minute I think I might get let down I'm off. I so needed to grow up.:o

It's not about growing up, I would be surprised if you'd gone through so much and it hadn't affected you!
I know what you mean about saying what is expected tho I have some "issues" that I'm sure could be treated but I just can't find the words to tell a professional I've told the ladies on here before that I reckon I've got trich (which means I pull my hair out excessively) probably also got OCD and I had PND after Chris, the only "real" person who knows this is my OH I just hide it around others.
xx

elle_gee

tarajayne wrote: »

tia, I've told my OH he's having the snip after as there is no way I'm having more. Told him I'm gonna watch, might even video it so that I can threaten to play it when his mates come round.:p

Can you request a bit of something to put in a jar and display on the mantlepiece too?

tarajayne

Sami_Bee wrote: »

och I hate blooming Ray Quinn :mad: why is he so good

Nice chest and bum though!

s-m. has a point, if you can't bake you'll not be much cop as an adopted mum!:rolleyes: :rotfl:

Krystaltips

My hubby has his faults, but he tries hard to be a good husband to me and a good father to Aimee. I wouldn't put up with half of what some people do... But then I spent 6 years living with someone who treated the dog better than he treated me... So I understand why some people stay...

And Sami... I love little Ray Quinn!!! Wanna punch Todd Carty in his stoopid gob though... And everytime I see Melinda I just shout 'Baps'... Can't help it... They just kind of jump out at me!

tarajayne

elle_gee wrote: »

Can you request a bit of something to put in a jar and display on the mantlepiece too?

Yuk!!!:think: