Scared to death-50K in debt and hubby doesn't know

8pnoodles

I completely agree with the last post. You need to learn how to budget and get the hang of digging yourself out. Once you're on the road to recovery (say in two months time) THEN tell your husband.

But tell him purely to let him know, rather than to bail you out.

I used to have my ex bail me out all the time and I never learned from it. This time I'm paying my own way out of my debts and learning along the way. I don't think I'll get into debt again!

PS. i like the field idea, but it's a bit cold this time of year!

kathfisch

The OP has already told her OH, read here:

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=145842