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What to give little bridemaids to carry?

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  • $17mma
    $17mma Posts: 2,623 Forumite
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    when i was a brides maid we carried little baskets with rose pettles in, as we came down the aisle before the bride we laced the aisle dropping pettles behind us for her to walk on.
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  • sunnth
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    When I was a bridesmaid at 4 I carried a rag doll dressed in the same outfit as me and I've still got it. It was a lovely and lasting gift. We did the same last year for my sister's wedding. My daughter then aged 5 had a rag doll dressed in the same outfit as her, the dressmaker made it at the same time as the dresses and my twin sons who were only two carried teddies with little waistcoats and trousers all made to coordinate with the bridesmaids. They all looked very cute and I hope they will keep them for years too.
  • You could ask their mums to get them to bring a favourite teddy or doll each and then add a ribbon to coordinate with your flowers - I think little kids get really attached to their favourite toys... Might give them more confidence (or keep them quiet during the ceremony!!!)
  • Mandles
    Mandles Posts: 4,121 Forumite
    I have 2 pretty rigid bhs bags for a tenner the pair! They are very pretty lilac with drawstring top (ribbon) and brand new. I am listing them on ebay on sunday if not.Let me know if you are interested.If not im sure there are loads of others on ebay
  • finc
    finc Posts: 1,095 Forumite
    Mandles wrote:
    I have 2 pretty rigid bhs bags for a tenner the pair! They are very pretty lilac with drawstring top (ribbon) and brand new.

    These are what my younger bridesmaids carried only they were ivory with ivory flowers on. My mum sewed some lilac ones as well to tie in with the colour scheme. They were very cute and handy for them to store all their 'treasure' in on the day.
    :smileyhea
  • nelly_2
    nelly_2 Posts: 17,863 Forumite
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    We just got married at christams and the two little one carried teddies, the thing is kids like teddies so they dont get bored and sling them in the pews.
  • finc
    finc Posts: 1,095 Forumite
    Ooh Nelly, I'm not sure what to make of your avatar. :undecided
    :smileyhea
  • across
    across Posts: 1,648 Forumite
    if you get chance get photo of little ones playing round you i got a lovely one of all the little ones playing in bubbles round me its great!!
    another nice photo which is on my wall is hubby picking me up and guests on a balcony above chucking confetti over us that is good fun too!!! good luck!
  • you can always get them to carry the grooms pint....
  • jockettuk
    jockettuk Posts: 5,809 Forumite
    my daughter was 18 months old at her godmothers wedding and she carried a little teddy bear with thank you for being my bridesmaid on the ribbon kept her amused throughout the wedding as well.
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