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My Brave, Brave Boy

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  • So sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful little boy. You and your family been so brave.
  • Lickul_miss
    Lickul_miss Posts: 1,552 Forumite
    Not much i can say that will ease ur pain, i read ur 1st post but didn't feel i could add anything as i couldn't see through the tears god bless u and ur family,

    Your boy was so very special an to take away the pain and guilt of u having to turn off his life support makes him all that much more special i'm so pleased you got to spend that precious last night with him and hope u take that in ur heart forever x

    you and your family are all so brave i hope time will heal i could never imagine losing a child may he always watch over you all x x x


    *********R.I.P Baby boy ***********
    ♫♫♫"Happy Happy Joy Joy! Happy Happy Joy! Happy Happy Joy Joy! Happy Happy Joy!"♫♫♫
  • empy
    empy Posts: 325 Forumite
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    I am so sorry for your loss, I will keep you and your family in my prayers and thoughts during this difficult time.

    RIP little angel.

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  • Broomstick
    Broomstick Posts: 1,648 Forumite
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    I'm so glad that you were able to have those last moments with your son in your arms in the way you did and the fact that he was able to say, through his actions, that he wanted you with him. That's very precious.

    Thinking of you with much love and many hugs

    Broomstick xxx
    (single mum of two)
  • You have all been very, very brave. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
  • My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

    Rest in peace precious baby.
  • My heart truly goes out to you and your family, I cannot even begin to imagine what you must be going though.

    He was one amazing brave little boy, and you are one truly amazing Mummy.

    My thoughts are with you.

    (((((Hugs)))))
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  • sarymclary
    sarymclary Posts: 3,224 Forumite
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    I've been thinking about your little boy, you and your family all weekend, since your post, and wondering how you were doing. It sounds like the most impossible situation was made more bearable for you. Given an option, how things transpired would be how I would have preferred it to be. Treasure those memories of his cuddles and smiles, they will sustain you a lifetime.

    I know you feel quite numb now, but on a practical level, don't be at all surprised if your grief suddenly hits you like a brick wall further down the line. It could take weeks, months, even years, and quite possibly not even triggered by anything in particular. If you feel at all like you aren't coping very well in the future, please take care of yourself, and go for a chat with your GP, or call Cruse. Sometimes all we need is a listening ear.

    This is may be 'just' a forum, but the contributors here all want to care for you and yours right now, and do post with any of your feelings or worries. You only need to take a look at 'Stormybay's thread to see how remarkable the support can be.

    Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time, and remembering your wonderful son. Take care xxxx
    One day the clocks will stop, and time won't mean a thing

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  • NAR
    NAR Posts: 4,864 Forumite
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    Oh helphelphelphelp what a situation for any parent to have to face. I hope you get solace from all the lovely comments here. Thankyou for sharing your very special story with us; BIG HUGS to you and your husband at this very sad time.
  • Hi HUn
    just read your post, I am so sorry for your loss I don't know how it feels or even imagine, But your right your brave son is at peace now.
    I am sending you and your family Gold Reiki Healing and you will continue to receive it every day from now.

    Blessed Be
    Mammy of 2.
    xxxxxxxxxxxxx
    ((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))
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