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2009 diary - time to make changes!

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  • Karen_30
    Karen_30 Posts: 823 Forumite
    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    1. get to work by 8.30 - no
    2. 1st hour for admin - no
    3. eat well - no
    4. drink 1 litre of water - done
    5. leave work by 5.30 - no
    6. sunbed - no
    7. slendertone - no
    !!!!!! - why am I so hopeless :confused: even had to cancel my pedicure cos I got stuck in traffic :mad:

    I am never going to improve my life at this rate :mad:

    Don't be too hard on yourself, maybe shorten the list for tomorrow leave out the work times but make sure you do the and hour of admin every day for rest of the week and then once you get in a routine of this next week start on the finishing at 5:30 thingy and then the early mornings will hopefully follow suit?? Sometime I struggle with lots of things so try and make my lists of things I know I will automatically do and then a few of those I know are harder like the water, food etc......

    Tomorrows another day :Dxx
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    List for tomorrow
    1. get an early start
    2. 2 hours admin
    3. eat well
    4. drink 1 litre of water
    5. leave work by 4.00pm
    6. collect presciption
    7. gym
    8. sunbed
    9. slendertone
    10. get cash
    11. home pedicure
    12. facepack
    13. get stuff ready for the races
    14. tidy apartment
    I must do better tomorrow :o
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Karen_30 wrote: »
    Don't be too hard on yourself, maybe shorten the list for tomorrow leave out the work times but make sure you do the and hour of admin every day for rest of the week and then once you get in a routine of this next week start on the finishing at 5:30 thingy and then the early mornings will hopefully follow suit?? Sometime I struggle with lots of things so try and make my lists of things I know I will automatically do and then a few of those I know are harder like the water, food etc......

    Tomorrows another day :Dxx

    Thanks Karen

    I know I can be hard on myself sometimes but I get so :mad: with myself when I don't seem to be getting anywhere :o
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    !!!!!! - why am I so hopeless :confused: even had to cancel my pedicure cos I got stuck in traffic :mad:

    I am never going to improve my life at this rate :mad:

    Being stuck in traffic doesn't make you useless:eek: Can you do any little thing now to improve things, read a mag, have some chocolate? Lula's karmic law insists on it:D
    Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000
    June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40
    Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    sarahb123 wrote: »
    Being stuck in traffic doesn't make you useless:eek: Can you do any little thing now to improve things, read a mag, have some chocolate? Lula's karmic law insists on it:D

    Thanks Sarah (and Lula :D)

    I have no chocolate (or wine!) - this is supposed to be a healthy eating household :rotfl::rotfl:

    But I am going to bed now to read my book - new Melissa Hill I bought on Tuesday (I love her books - chick lit with a twist and a bit more class)
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • makeup
    makeup Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    List for tomorrow
    1. get an early start
    2. 2 hours admin
    3. eat well
    4. drink 1 litre of water
    5. leave work by 4.00pm
    6. collect presciption
    7. gym
    8. sunbed
    9. slendertone
    10. get cash wow great idea, I'm gonna have this on a list every day!
    11. home pedicure
    12. facepack
    13. get stuff ready for the races
    14. tidy apartment
    I must do better tomorrow :o

    I'm loving the plan for tomorrow. I too shall try and get cash tomorrow.

    Are you thinking of holding up a bank or merely a little light pickpocketing??
    I've got my own flat :j:j

    Now I have to pay the bills :eek:

    And feed my interiors addiction ;)
  • ha ha yes i'll add the get cash too - maybe its time to think outside the box!! - i've started doing my own pedicures - which will be even easier when i have got rid of my big fat beer belly - ok its not that bad but hey anything to make life easier! - just think of the money you have saved by cancelling your pedicure!!!
    LBM - 17/07/09:j
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    Deposit for house 4000/15000
    New York fund 250/1500 (paid for some tickets for NY trip with it!)
    I WILL DO THIS YAY!!!!!:easter_ba
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    Shoe Gal my fabby friend,

    you are just trying too damn hard & giving yourself too many things to potentially fail at, thereby increasing your sense of doom & despondency :(

    Doctor Karmic-Law-Lula insists that you :

    Stop this immediately :naughty: & start listing the things you HAVE achieved every day instead :D

    I believe that you are very excited about your forthcoming trip to the races & if you're anything at all like me then this is overshadowing just about everything else. When my big surprise day out with my sis was imminent I was incapable of caring about anything at all other than having enough money to spend & something fab to wear :rolleyes:.

    Enjoy yourself, look fabulous, spend a bit of money, be carefree, be fabulous, have a whole heap of self indulgent fun & then return with a fresh plan for listing your daily achievements on monday.

    something along the lines of :

    Got up & went to work :D
    Ate healthily :A
    Didnt beat myself up over the little things :rolleyes:

    It's my first day of not having to do anything for what feels like weeks & so far all I've achieved is :

    got up,
    had a bath & did all the tan, nails, hair etc stuff
    had 2 cups of coffee
    wandered & posted on mse
    put on underwear .... yep, that's it so far :rotfl:

    Now, get yourself in front of that mirror, chin raised, look yourself firmly in the eye & repeat after me :

    " I am so F fabulous I deserve to have fun at the races, I achieve so much every day of which I am proud & will always strive to do more the next day ... but if I dont it really doesnt matter as I am neither a saint nor a world leader & they dont always get it right either :rolleyes:"

    Here endeth todays lecture :o. ( notice how by spending half an hour typing this out to you I have succesfully [STRIKE]wasted[/STRIKE]used another half hour in which I could be tidying, cleaning, washing, devising a cunning plan to gain more money ;) )
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    makeup wrote: »
    I'm loving the plan for tomorrow. I too shall try and get cash tomorrow.

    Are you thinking of holding up a bank or merely a little light pickpocketing??

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Just read that back and realised how it sounded ! I was actually just referring to my terrible habit of always having to find a cash machine on my way to anywhere and not being organised to get cash in advance :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    ha ha yes i'll add the get cash too - maybe its time to think outside the box!! - i've started doing my own pedicures - which will be even easier when i have got rid of my big fat beer belly - ok its not that bad but hey anything to make life easier! - just think of the money you have saved by cancelling your pedicure!!!

    Trying to look at it that way but I hate doing my own :o, it's such a treat to have it done :D
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
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