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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 2
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glasgowgirl wrote: »Well another AF day for me. Decided this morning that, although Thurs-Sat are my 'allowed' days, I wasn't going to bother. I've had a Mrs Doyle type voice in my head all day going "Go on go on go on go on go on, ye will ye will ye will ye will ye will" but have managed to override it. Very tiresome though fighting with a negative voice in your head.
Proud of you. I know it's tiring fighting the nagging voice, but when you finally know that you've beaten it, does it not give you a bit of a boost, knowing that you're mentally giving it the finger?0 -
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Hi Guys,
Late post today as just got in from yoga, feeling very relaxed and quite content to be honest, just having a herbal tea.
So Dear Lurky another afd that is 29 yay, :T hope you are well? Take care, hugs my friend. xxxxx
Patchoulli, well done on deciding to go for 28 days in February. Us Squeeze fans need to stick together. Hugs and take care. xxxxx
Bis, Fay, Jo, Winebox, Miamoo, Jjff, 115k, Gc, Eselt, Mari and everyone else sending you all hugs xxxxx
Fay sorry you are having such an awful time at work, I hope things improve for you soon. Please take care and look after yourself. xxxxx
Yellow Monkey and Bhb hope you are both ok? Hugs xxxxx
Polaroid hope you are ok angel, big hugs and lots of love xxxxx
Grey P well done on your weight loss, you have done fantastic. xxxxx
Pbt one more day to target, well done and take care. xxxx
Bis and Mari hope you are both feeling better soon, Take Care. Hugs xxxxx
Ra if you are about? Hi and take care. xxxx
So :T to everyone on your achievements so far in January. Only 2 days left. xxxx
Nite everyone and God Bless xxxxxxxxxxxxxxCherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A0 -
Thanks for your words GP x0
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Oh forgot to say: Molly Polly hope you are ok, it will soon be the end of January and the rush for those tax returns. Goodness I bet you can't wait? :j
Take Care and God Bless xxxxxxCherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A0 -
Evening all
Wow, that took some catching up with the thread. You guys have been quite prolific again since I was last on.
I've been thinking about that well known saying - a problem shared is a problem halved - over the last few days. This thread is certainly ringing that saying true for me. It seems that the thread is sucking in all that negativity and sending it into some kind of alco black hole. Either that or Lurky has got the weight of the world on his shoulders.
It has been a great source of release to have someone, well, many ones actually, to share my issues with and it has made the challenge a lot easier than I otherwise would have imagined.
I think everyone has done a really great job. If you haven't met your target don't worry, winebox is ready, well...nearly ready to keep the scores on the doors, but don't forget that if AFJ hasn't gone so well, at least the seed has been sown and you are stepping in the right direction.
Another AFD day for me Lurky so that makes 28/29
Right, off to bed. Didn't mean to stay up this late, can't blame the sluggishness on the booze anymore so it must be the late nights.:o
Until tomorrow,
TRCSealed Pot Challenge 2009 #478 (target £250)Debt free date - Dec 2013, Mortgage free date - Jan 2034AFF (12/28) [target - 12/28], AFJ (29/31) [target 25/31]AFM [no target] [AFD's- 8][1 drink- 4][2 drinks- 4][3 drinks- 1][>3 drinks- 4]0 -
budget_babe wrote: »Oh forgot to say: Molly Polly hope you are ok, it will soon be the end of January and the rush for those tax returns. Goodness I bet you can't wait? :j
Take Care and God Bless xxxxxx
Still here , still busy ....but not long now and then I will be back with you all for a AFF.
Well done to you all!!!!
Alisong ...well done....it will soon be my one year birthday AF.
Where did the time go??
Take care of you everyone.
See you soon.
Love Mollypollyxxxx:happylove :happylove
I'm back!!!!
DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
DMP mutual support group number 444
Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j0 -
Thanks to all you lovely people
:A
(and some will power that I managed to find from somewhere) I have hit my target!! So that's 13/13 for me Lurkio.
I'll be lurking avidly in next two days and congratulations (in advance) for all the AFD days we've achieved between us.:T0 -
Another one for me Lurky me dear - 16 nowTotal debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
:money:Sleeves up folks.:money:0 -
Well it's 26/29 for me (and no drunken cycling, hurrah!). My target was 28/31 but am going to have a drink tonight and maybe tomorrow and not beat myself up about it as on my non-AFDs this month I've had practically nothing. I think I'll stick around for Feb too just to make sure I've got this damn thing under control and until I stop thinking about pints at work. So WB please put me down for 16/28 (and 56 units total for the month) which I'm hoping to exceed (the target, not the units!). Well done everybody, am really impressed by the willpower being displayed on here at the mo....nothing to see here...0
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