*Daily chat thread 1st Jan 2009 ** HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL

tigzem

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

it will change to 'received' tigzem and the colour changes to green. When it is sent, the text will go blue and say 'sent'. The payment date when it is validated is just an estimation.

I've still got a total of £71 from August sitting as validated with a payment of Jan 09 - that will change to Feb 09 I guess in a few days.

Thanks BB... guess mine will change to Feb 09 too as not showing as received. x

bookseller1980

insider66 wrote: »

bookseller1980,

2 things

do you sell books?

were you born in 1980?

Yes and no.

insider66

Snaggles wrote: »

I'm not sure there's anything to talk through really to be honest - he was genuinely ill, I am a distrustful biatch with a self esteem issue and that's pretty much it. But I will talk to him about it anyway, because he does understand that I worry.

And.....welcoming kiss? That cold sore I was dreading came up overnight....so not exactly going to be a raunchy weekend with aunt flo AND a cold sore on my lip!!! :rotfl:

(I'm laughing but actually I'm mortified!!! :rotfl: )

can anyone point me in the direction of what this is about please? ... intrigued...

insider66

bookseller1980 wrote: »

Yes and no.

good

what year?

jinky67

Snaggles wrote: »

I'm not sure there's anything to talk through really to be honest - he was genuinely ill, I am a distrustful biatch with a self esteem issue and that's pretty much it. But I will talk to him about it anyway, because he does understand that I worry.

And.....welcoming kiss? That cold sore I was dreading came up overnight....so not exactly going to be a raunchy weekend with aunt flo AND a cold sore on my lip!!! :rotfl:

(I'm laughing but actually I'm mortified!!! :rotfl: )

well hun me and you both:cool:

I am finding cos we are so far apart, talking about everything, no matter how silly,means there is no resentment or petty sillyness builds up,and it leads to some very honest and hard conversations,but it does make us stronger as a couple.


You mean you might actually have to talk to the guy?:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

insider66

jinky67 wrote: »

well hun me and you both:cool:

I am finding cos we are so far apart, talking about everything, no matter how silly,means there is no resentment or petty sillyness builds up,and it leads to some very honest and hard conversations,but it does make us stronger as a couple.


You mean you might actually have to talk to the guy?:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

take him for a pint - i'm sure he's ready for one :beer:

Snaggles

insider66 wrote: »

can anyone point me in the direction of what this is about please? ... intrigued...

Very sexy new boyfriend cancelled our new years eve together at the last minute.....I was gutted because I thought he was pretending to be ill so he didn't have to drive 3 hours to see me - but he was actually ill. That makes me look really bad actually, but there are reasons why I am paranoid about him. I am actually pretty much head over heels for this guy and got myself in a right panic over it, so I am so happy that I was wrong, and I know now that I have to get a grip and start trusting him before I wreck things because of my own lack of confidence that he could possibly find me attractive.

He's on his way here now though

Burlesque_Babe

told ya he'd be heading your way today

Snaggles

jinky67 wrote: »

well hun me and you both:cool:

I am finding cos we are so far apart, talking about everything, no matter how silly,means there is no resentment or petty sillyness builds up,and it leads to some very honest and hard conversations,but it does make us stronger as a couple.


You mean you might actually have to talk to the guy?:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

It's a very weird thing - we are so very (VERY) open about pretty much everything - but yet I'm nervous of telling him how insecure I feel, because I feel like it's MY problem, not his.

We started off as platonic friends, so the talking thing isn't an issue really, although it does get lost in the heat of the moment sometimes :rotfl:

Snaggles

BB :wave: Happy new year hun, thanks for knocking some sense into me lol! Did you have a good evening?