Daily Chat Wed 24th - HO HO HO he's on his way

pepe2008

(Land_of)_Maz wrote: »

hey pepe, heard about your big decision yesterday, wow!! You're a brave and honest bloke and i hope it's all you hope it should be and things are fabby in 2009....

and even if it isn't the long term thing you hope for, it was a catalyst for change which is what you need at times so no bad thing....

I wonder how Mrs Pepe will take it? Do you think she is full of apathy so may not react? Are you prepared for some outpouring of emotions, and will it change your position if you realised she did care after all?

Make sure the reasons you give her for your leaving are yours and hers and not anything to do with iustina(sp) as that would be harder for her, and really is not the main reason...

I think a lot of people here wish they could be as honest with their feelings as you are being, i admire you for it mate.....

if you need to talk, you know where we all are.....

Wheels have been off with me and OH for years.
I just need to get through Xmas and then get it sorted out. there will be no need to bring iustina into it as she has just been incidental to the whole situation. She has come along at the right time for me.
It was talking to I about her work situation ( abusive boss )that helped me face up to my own problems.
I will just have to see the reaction from OH as to whether the 'I have been unfaithful' card comes out.

You plan a conversation, and thats normally everything thats NOT said!!
Keeping a lid on for the next week or so will be hardest, thank God I've accepted evry invitation going, cant be alone with her anymore.
Pepe xxx

pepe2008

JET34 wrote: »

yep I am loving the Karma ... I am begining to think that this could be a great xmas!!!!!!

I think my Karma has run over my Dogma

pepe2008

Sorry, inward looking, melancholy Pepe here,

BIG hugs Sammy:kisses3:

Buffythedebtslayer

sammy115 wrote: »

Doc phoned at 8am this morning:eek: but he says her white blood count is up....however, as she has this rotten flu virus then it could be that..she has to go back in six weeks to have repeat bloods done..

She also has a problem with a lump at the front of her neck which keeps coming up so I rang back and whilst they can't discuss her individual case (as she is 18 and officially not my baby anymore:o ) they don't think its anything to worry about. so phew I am officially not stressing anymore!!

She has an appointment with the eye consultant on the 2nd Jan at 9am so at least I can bug the consultant then if I am still worried.

If you think its hard being the mother of a child, being the mother of an 18 year is REALLY hard. You want to protect them and you can't:o

Glad you got some answers and its nothing to worry about xxxxx

bookseller1980

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

morning.

Evanesco - lots of positive vibes for this afternoon for you and your nan.

So, it's Christmas Eve, Aunt Flo arrived yesterday, I'm croaking with cold and OH doesn't want to go out tonight (didn't think he would, but thought I'd ask - the local pub won't be that busy) and I've got to spend the day AQA'ing but hey - it's CCHHRISSTMMMMMMMMMMMMASSSSSSSSSSS!!

And the reason OH hasn't asked what I want yet (from last night)? He hasn't bought anything yet.....:eek: ...he is currently sitting on the sofa and says he is going into town today......:eek: :eek:

An awful lot of men are out shopping today - it is always the same. Panic Buying and will grab anything. I am looking across the road at H Samuel's. Loads of men bent over the window with hands very firmly in their pockets! They will toddle off to the pub in a minute to think about it!:rotfl: :rotfl:

(Land_of)_Maz

pepe2008 wrote: »

Sorry, inward looking, melancholy Pepe here,

BIG hugs Sammy:kisses3:

As long as you're alright babes... it won't be easy but you're strong and have support....



Sammy, glad to hear it's not as bad as you feared, and that further tests/consults are planned so you can get all your questions answered.. I bet DD is glad you're there to ask, cause i doubt the average 18 year old would know where to begin! unless we're talking contraception in which case they probably know more than we'll ever!

De-stress now and enjoy the holidays!

(Land_of)_Maz

bookseller1980 wrote: »

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An awful lot of men are out shopping today - it is always the same. Panic Buying and will grab anything. I am looking across the road at H Samuel's. Loads of men bent over the window with hands very firmly in their pockets! They will toddle off to the pub in a minute to think about it!:rotfl: :rotfl:

i could wish for something from H samuels!! not likely!

Buffythedebtslayer

I am going to watch the muppets and have some toast and wrap my presents!

its definitely Christmas now the Muppets are on!

xxxx

bookseller1980

I love watching the men on Christmas Eve. Christmas always takes them by suprise even if it is always on 25th December!
And they always buy the wrapping paper first!:rotfl:

pepe2008

Can any of you clever people who are not techno-idiots like me, find a picture of a big bunch of mistletoe............I feel like kissing all of my favourite people under it:D