Don't know where to turn

pania

Hey all, Megan can't get on during home hours as she has problems accessing the internet, she will be back tomorrow and i know she is reading all the wonderful advice being given. Lots of Love P xxx

Numpty_Monkey

Thanks P :kisses3:

And one for Megan :kisses3:

MrsTinks

Thanks for the updates P

Megan: Your husband can be as unhelpful as he likes - if you have any joint finances then any trouble you are in HE is in so he may as well get his backside in gear to help you NOW rather than later
Before we can really advise you on what path to take forward we really really do need your soa so we can determine what the state of play is... It may be a DMP, it might be that we can help you juggle things to lower aprs and lower your payments but until we get that SOA we simply won't know
Remember you are never alone and even if you can't get online you can always call the samaritans. They don't judge you and they are very nice people

sparky0107

Hiya megan,
Just wanted to say hi again and bump your thread back to page 1, hope you're feeling better after the great advice and supprot you're getting off all the wonderful people on here. I'm certainly glad I found this site, it's such an inspiration to everyone who comes on here.

Good Luck hun XX

determinedtodothis

I've just read your post Meganr

I felt the same i thought i was going to lose everything i had worked so hard for - but you can do this, the people on here are amazing and they keep me going, i was about to give up i'd been reading the board and trying the challenges without actually posting on here and i felt like i was getting no where untill i did my sums and discovered the advice these people had given me had helped me pay off £3k in 3 months! i now find i have money over at the end of the week (i get paid weekly) rather than more week left at the end of my money..

Its scary i know but take the advice on here, speak to CCCS or something like that just telling someone felt like a huge weight..I hit a low when i finally opened my bills after months of ignoring them, then i set up a DMP and i haven't looked back my mortgage was in litigation and i've pulled that back - i have 3 more over payments and then i'm up to date and i thought i would be homless this xmas and its thanks to the support and inspiration from this board

1. You can beat this - look at what you have acheived with the loan!
2. You are NEVER alone we are all in the same boat with the same fears

Numpty_Monkey

Hi megan how have thingsbeen today hun

dancingfairy

Just wanted to say hi and welcome. :hello:. Hope you are beigining to feel a little better today -knowing you are not alone and there are various different options you can take but it might take a little while for the best course of action to become apparent.
Take care and if you can start to post you SOA then people can begin to offer some constructive advice.
df