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**Weekend Chat 20/21 Dec - last one before the big day!

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  • No no don't go down that road... it leads to self pity... I doubt very much that it is anything to do with not being wanted :naughty:
  • don't feel stupid Sar. It's better to know now and get it sorted rather than let it go on and if you can stay friends, then that is good, if a bit awkward for a while.

    There are loads of possibilities out there for someone for you - you are very pretty, sassy and incredibly sexy.

    I'd 'av ya..................;)
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • mmmmmmmmmmmmm................yule log..............haven't made one this year..................there's still time though ;)
    I think I am going to rely on Waitrose to have a decent one :blush: OH is making scones (plain for us and fruit for my mum) and I am making biscuits and mini muffins and between that and the never-ending to-do list I can't summon up the enthusiasm :confused:

    Donated 'practice runs' gratefully received of course :D
  • have to just say though - when I say sassy, I mean fresh, free spirited and lively! (some people see sassy as a bit of an insult apparently as it can mean impudent/rude as well)
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Sar,
    Listen to DD, she talks sense. I too know the pain you are suffering and I can't make it go away as much as I wish I could xxxx
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Thank you guys. x
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • tigzem
    tigzem Posts: 2,361 Forumite
    Aw IA (can we still call you that?? ) sorry you feeling blue.... but hey, just cos he's not interested in that way does not mean that there isn't anyone else, he's just being a bit shy at the moment but he'll find you one day and wham!!! It will happen xxxx
    "Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little." Edmund Burke
  • skint_spice
    skint_spice Posts: 13,538 Forumite
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    IA, I did similar earlier this year and despite him being interested then not I'm still glad I told him how I felt as I'd still be wondering otherwise. obviously I'd be a whole lot happier if he'd gone with the whole falling madly in love with me plan but c'est la vie...
    Mortgage OP 2025 £7050/7000
    Mortgage OP 2024 £7700/7000

    Mortgage balance: £34,965

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    ”Do what others won’t early in life so you can do what others can’t later in life” (stolen from Gally Girl)
  • It doesn't usually seem like it but it is better to know, skinty is right. We can't take the pain away but we can distract you, cheer you up, talk about it if you want and other things if you don't x

    Your girls will love you a thousand times more than any man ever could x
  • £500 on a Bass to cheer you up :eek:

    Kill 2 birds with one stone. A rampant rabbit is only £19.99 :D
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