DMP Mutual Support Thread (Part 5)

suziepoor

Hi all

Thanks to toffeepenny and everyone else for all the great posts, they have really cheered me up and spurred me on.

this weekend im going to send off my token payments and notification of dmp to all my creditors. also going to finish sorting my new bank account out and cancelling old loan payment and standing orders. Then am just going to wait and see what happens regarding phone calls, as i need to face up to things, cant keep running away from it all.

Think im just finding it hard as im dealing with a relationship breakup and depression at the same time as sorting the dmp out, but neverming im going to be positive and just go on this site and find you guys everytime i start feeling down about things )

Hope everyone has a nice weekend,

love
Suzie
xxx

2spicy

Suzie, stick with it ... being debt free is far more important and, if you are not in a relationship now, just think ho wmuch more responsible you will feel when your in another knowing that you beat debt

rayday2

All I can recommend is taking it day by day and looking back seeing how far you have come rather than looking too far ahead. What you are going through I should imagine the money problems are the simplest to sort out in the long run.

Take care and hope you have the best weekend possible.
x

maz1964

hiya everyone, a happy and a lucky 2009

ive come in to see how all are , nice to see you rayday, hope you had a good xmas and new year

im still hanging in, what a difference a year makes,

have a fun weekend all im going a looking at my other threads for a while

ciao maz;)

rayday2

Hi Maz!

Its not a year for you is it? I think I must be getting far too old time is running by.

Christmas was good, New Year was quiet and I have had a birthday too this week and that was even quieter! Hope yours were good

mbs1

Well.......

Coby was born wednesday morning 7/1/09 via C-section at 09:55 weighing 8lb, even tho he was 3 weeks early!!!

Mum and baby are doing fine, all home now

Also the DMP is finally up and running.

Oh joy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cocker100

mbs1 wrote: »

Well.......

Coby was born wednesday morning 7/1/09 via C-section at 09:55 weighing 8lb, even tho he was 3 weeks early!!!

Mum and baby are doing fine, all home now

Also the DMP is finally up and running.

Oh joy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:beer: :j :T :beer: :j :T :beer: :j :T :beer: :j :T :beer: :j :T

yellowmonkey

mbs1 wrote: »

Well.......

Coby was born wednesday morning 7/1/09 via C-section at 09:55 weighing 8lb, even tho he was 3 weeks early!!!

Mum and baby are doing fine, all home now

Also the DMP is finally up and running.

Oh joy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congrats and all the best

ym

Parsley_2

mbs1 wrote: »

Well.......

Coby was born wednesday morning 7/1/09 via C-section at 09:55 weighing 8lb, even tho he was 3 weeks early!!!

Mum and baby are doing fine, all home now

Also the DMP is finally up and running.

Oh joy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations!!!! :j

Parsley_2

Toffee_Penny wrote: »

got offered a credit card
paid credit card off a few times the limit increased
offered a loan - promised self to pay off credit card balance
paid off credt card balance. limit increased but ran up to limit again
now have loan and credit card debt
offered a new loan to consolidate the card and loan
still kept the card and ran up to the limit
offered a new card, ran that up to
offered a new loan or card
ran them up too
payments get too much
struggling to meet basic minimum payments
get behind with rent, bills, food shopping money goes down
feel alone and worried
join Martin Lewis site
find out about CCCS or Payplan
chat most nights to total strangers with funny nicknames about things you wouldn't even dream of telling your work colleagues or family
discover being in debt makes you stronger and that there are still weird people in the world but they tend to hang around on the internet

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

So true. We'll never get into this situation again though with all the knowledge and support from this site.

Glad to hear your OH got work.

All the best for 2009 to everyone here.