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Daily Chat Thread - Its Friday 05/12 - Woohoo!!

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  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    I'm not sure if I can after I gave him such a hard time about doing that by phone and not having the guts to sit down with me face to face! He just phoned a minute ago to say he might make it over tomorrow, so we'll see. Why do I feel like I'm being the 'bad' one? :confused:
    because he wants you to feel that way to make himself feel better:rolleyes:
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    And I've already bought his bloody Christmas present.. :rolleyes: :rotfl:
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    And I've already bought his bloody Christmas present.. :rolleyes: :rotfl:

    Can you take it back and exchange it for something that will make YOU feel good?;)
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    Can you take it back and exchange it for something that will make YOU feel good?;)

    Nah, it was a 'vintage' i.e. secondhand book.. I'm being a bit mean there really as it wasn't expensive and I was going to get him something else to go with it. I guess I could re-sell it. Or burn it. Or throw it at him. Don't really feel angry at the moment but I'm sure I will at some point!
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • LouiseJ
    LouiseJ Posts: 11,156 Forumite
    I really hope you can speak face to face over the weekend, at least you will get it over and done with......

    I am still sulking:o
    But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.
  • cat4772
    cat4772 Posts: 2,467 Forumite
    RS - hugs. Relationships seem to have been under some serious scrutiny in 2008 and I hope things get better for everyone.

    I can't remember where I heard or read it but the first Monday in January sees divorce and separation specialists inundated with enquiries and the reason is the enforced 'togetherness' of the season seems to highlight how people have grown apart. My best mates husband frigged off in early January after being the most considerate and loving husband over Christmas and he said he was fed up with "pretending" to love her when he didn't:mad:. then again he was a git who didn't deserve her!!!!!
    DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
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    :othe thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*

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  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    oh lou - you poor thing.... but i believe in karma and you will go to the ball!

    Even if we all have to petition Moz himself!!
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    lou i did try to post a piccy of the Moz especially for you but it didnt work
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Just been reading through my DFW diary and found this in a post on 29 May

    "So its full steam ahead on this route for now. If we are lucky enough to be surprised with a baby at some point along the way we'll reassess then(there's a strong possiblity that I can't have a baby because of some bad stuff in my past and he may have issues as he played rugby and has had his tackle mashed on more than one occasion so we're not 'planning' for a family as such )"

    Made me chuckle as at that stage i was 3 weeks pregnant (and had drunk 3 glasses of wine at dinner with Hubbles over the weekend!):rotfl:

    It also made me realise what a big part of my life you've all become in a relatively short space of time - hugs all round!:beer:

    And its given my DFW drive a kick start as I've been coasting a little on the Grocery Challenge/NSD front:o
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    afternoon all. Had a busy morning and I can't believe its the weekend yippppeeeeeee. Although I do have to work tomorrow but quite frankly I find it a break and easier than being at home!
    Squizzer sending you lots of hugs hun, I hope things resolve themself soon and you can be happy.
    Luc how funny re-reading your diary and you being oblivious about your pregnancy!

    Going to finish my christmas shopping this afternoon I think....then I can wrap and get the tree up ;)

    Lou is it likely that they will add another date to the tour?
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
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