Just the three of us - new beginnings!

doodledo_2

Thanks Retro I think I am quite strong lol but this is certainly testing me .

Ex has just rung and asked if he can take DD away for a few days this week. Four days without her, I just won't know what to do with myself.

I agreed as I know she will love it but breaks my heart.

lilmissmup

Awww hun are you working this week? If you are occupy yourself with that and lots of dooyoo and chatting to me!

retrocircles

So true! You could spend 4 days doing whatever you like! Everything, just for you!

doodledo_2

Well another busy day today.

The HIP man came and so now the energy report and photos are done so now the house can go on the market :T Estate Agents will get the details tonight so I am hoping they may be in contact tomorrow about my for sale sign yippeee.

DD is off tomorrow for her hols so need to get her bits packed up tonight and then I have no excuse not to hit the gym and dooyoo whilst she is away.

lilmissmup

At least its all moving along quickly, hopefully it will get snapped up

retrocircles

Eeee! On the market! Woooooop!

Double_Trouble

Hope everything goes really well with the house sale.

Enjoy the next few days and treat yourself to some me time.

DTxx

doodledo_2

Well my little girl has just left and however hard i tried not to I blubbed like a baby. It has made me think about me and how I maybe cling on to her since being single. I was with my ex from the aged for 15 so I am just not used to being on my own. Maybe this break will do me good to think a bit about ME and what I want. I have an urge to write a plan or something for the next few years of my life, where I want to be etc.

I find I think too much about what I have lost and what I no longer have and maybe now is a time to think about what I want in the future if that makes sense.

Just making some lunch and then going out with my Exs nan to the cemetary as the anniversary of her husbands death. THink the fresh air will do me good. Then going to get myself down the gym and get some endorphins pumping lol.

lunar

Looks like you are having a real rollercoaster at the moment, managing brilliantly as usual! enjoy the few days to yourself. I hope you get some viewing soon, will you be looking to buy a house when yours sells?

doodledo_2

Lunar - not sure what I am doing next. I will come away debt free and with a sizeable chunk of cash so I think when I know actual amounts I will go and see a mortgage advisor to see what I can get on my own.

I am lucky my parents have a big house and are happy for us to move in there whilst we sort so I don't need to rush into anything.

I hate the thought of moving back in with my parents but financially it would make a huge amount of sense as they wouldn't accept any money off me.