Still Scared

insider66

do you want to talk via msn?

hectorcarol

want to know your status first !!!

insider66

status? sorry I don't know what you mean? Just want to help

insider66

hectorcarol wrote: »

How u know what bank ???

Oh i see!

I know what bank from experience of dealing with debt problems...

1. it's your biggest credit card debt

2. the loan is normally going to be with the biggest credit card

hectorcarol

Sorry, got a bit defensive.
How u know NatWest ???
Or do u know me ???
I am quite well known where I live
U will have to invite me to MSN as I haven't got an
A/c anymore but my daughter does
XXX

judi24

I think you need to take a breath! You need to talk to CCCS tomorrow - until then you really can't do anything else! I know it is scary but it will be ok - the plan CCCS sort will not leave you eating bread and water - others on here will verify that - just make sure you pay your mortgage and CT and let the others know the situation - CCCS will expalin more - Try to calm down - get some sleep - tomorrow every thing will not seem so bad x

hectorcarol

OKOKOK

Thanks for your earlier reply
Getting a paranoid!!!!
XXX

hectorcarol

God I am so sorry to all of you.
I know that u r only trying to help.

Just bloody scared with not seeing a way out, yet.
XXX

insider66

Thanks judi24,

I'm not sure our trainee is yet convinced of our best intentions

Sorry HC !

judi24

it is scary to face up to things epecially if your OH is not in the same place!!!! not sure how else to reasure you hectorcarol - perhaps looking at the situations other people are in and are surviving is a good start - I am not a good example cos I never actually update my signature!! but if you look at the journey other people are going through then you will see that many people are in your situation and manage to sort it out - eventually!