Still Scared

insider66

hectorcarol wrote: »

Hi Insider66

At the moment, I can't see the way through.
Please give me a hope, I can't see a way to live with paying the debts.
We are living on about £35 weekly for everything.
The rest is on cards which I shredded at work this week.
So we are struggling seriously now with a 12 yr daughter as well.
I go without food so that they can eat, I live on sandwiches etc.

Can you see why I am scared
XXX

HC, are you still trying to make the monthly payments to the debts?

hectorcarol

Hiya
paid them all and up to date until 21/11
Cannot do it next month

hectorcarol

Cannot open the other window, sorry.
XXX

hectorcarol

Don't u wanna talk anymore ???

insider66

hectorcarol wrote: »

Hiya
paid them all and up to date until 21/11
Cannot do it next month

OK, but didn't anyone tell you to just concentrate on the priorities?

ie. the mortgae, rent and household bills and money to live on. You need to forget about paying the minimum payments to credit cards and loan, this is why you need a new bank account, so you can stop paying them without the bank helping themselves....

hectorcarol

We only got the new bank details yesterday

hectorcarol

I have cancelled the lot tonight

insider66

You bank with natwest yes?

hectorcarol

I work also
I am the one that deals with this !!!!. Sorry.
Nothing set up yet for anything.
Really bloody frightening
XXX

hectorcarol

How u know what bank ???