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DFW Daily Chat 10th Nov

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  • Job going t!ts up.
    Apparently my CCJ is an issue.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • *Dee*
    *Dee* Posts: 302 Forumite
    Have you told him how you feel?

    Not outright but i think he knows.
  • :rotfl: or maybe one of those hats with the ear flaps?


    may kill the mood, having something akin to Sherlock holmes getting on with things.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    *Dee* wrote: »
    As we are the subject of relationships i was wondering if you lovely people might be able to help me.

    I have been sleeping with this bloke for 20 months now. He is a mate of mine and my ex's. It happened first as a mistake as i was upset and drunk and i thought it was a one off but it now happens at least once a week. I would love a relationship with him, he is lovely, treats me right and all that. But no one at all knows about what happens between us, i dont know if it is because i used to go out with his mate or what but im scared to ask him incase i dont get the answer i want!!

    Any advice you have would be grea as i drive myself insane keep thinking about it!!

    Dee
    xx

    oh dee, no use hiding away...! tell him you'd like to go out for dinner or invite him to your works do at xmas... this would be a good test.... not unreasonable after 20 months hun

    if it's just a booty call for him, and this isn't enough for you then you need to end it.... easier said than done i know. but if it isn't a relationship then he should accept it. you deserve better....

    i was seeing a guy like that when big g and i split up one time, amazing guy, amzing sex, so nice but too honest and straightforward said i wasn't the kind of woman he wanted to "go out" with... i.e. a bit fat! so i Shhhh'd his brains out for a while longer cause it suited me, made sure i was the best he'd ever have, and walked away....

    i actually got back with Big G, fell pregnant with Erin almost straight away and the rest is history....
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • DD - I was hoping it would bleep me out! You can't say p.u.s.s.y - but you can say anal on MSE! :rotfl:
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Job going t!ts up.
    Apparently my CCJ is an issue.

    NO NO NO no that is NOT fair.

    :mad:
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • I thought b*ggery was illegal anyway? lol

    not in this country anymore ;) -well, not consensual anyway!!
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • Job going t!ts up.
    Apparently my CCJ is an issue.
    :( :grouphug:
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    It all depends which role you have ;)

    self preservation! very wise!!
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    My mum is going to have DS overnight while me and DP go away for a night.

    Sex, or alcohol?

    Not both.

    CHOOSE.

    Edit: not till Jan but I'm like a kid at, well, Christmas!

    Drink tequila - if you're affected in the way i am he'll be begging for mercy before dawn! (so much for
    You sweet and innocent, you :kisses3:
    ):rotfl: )

    Does 2% then refer specifically to those who give or take or just anal in general?
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


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