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DFW Daily Chat 10th Nov

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  • Oh, say it ain't so!

    I don't know if he has one to be honest - but I do like him...well, his music at least.
    :p I'm the only gay in this forum :p
    *Everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads*
  • and that's no mean feat for a gay man!!! - sorry if TMI again all you 2%-ers!!

    It all depends which role you have ;)
    :p I'm the only gay in this forum :p
    *Everybody wants prosthetic foreheads on their real heads*
  • 20 months is a really long time to be seeing some one and keeping it a secret.

    I am afraid my gut tells me that if he wanted a relationship you would have one - is there a problem with your ex? would his family/friends approve of him seeing a friends ex? does he ever suggest he is in love?
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    *Dee* wrote: »
    As we are the subject of relationships i was wondering if you lovely people might be able to help me.

    I have been sleeping with this bloke for 20 months now. He is a mate of mine and my ex's. It happened first as a mistake as i was upset and drunk and i thought it was a one off but it now happens at least once a week. I would love a relationship with him, he is lovely, treats me right and all that. But no one at all knows about what happens between us, i dont know if it is because i used to go out with his mate or what but im scared to ask him incase i dont get the answer i want!!

    Any advice you have would be grea as i drive myself insane keep thinking about it!!

    Dee
    xx

    20 months and not 'public' I hear alarm bells but I may be reading too much into it. talk to the man - he most likely won't say/do anything to break the status quo unless prodded so long as he's getting his IYKWIM
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • pepe2008
    pepe2008 Posts: 5,158 Forumite
    ok here's my additions to the SOA calculator

    PVC outfits
    Boots
    Lingerie
    Condoms
    Massage oil
    Baby wipes
    Fancy dress eye patches (For those 'off aim' moments.)

    ;)

    Eye patches! One of my mates GF needs earplugs, maybe she needs to stop turning her head to one side at the crucial moments.....3 times now and she blames him:rotfl:
    :D:D stay wonky :D:D

    ....one-way ticket to Portugal booked !
  • pepe2008 wrote: »
    Eye patches! One of my mates GF needs earplugs, maybe she needs to stop turning her head to one side at the crucial moments.....3 times now and she blames him:rotfl:
    Just me that needs the eyepatches then.... :cool: I always fancied myself as a pirate.... Yaaaaaar...



    but come on.. (excuse the pun)... 3 times?????
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Luc it's someone who enjoys... er... partakes... in a bit of... y'know...

    Sorry - it may be baby brain but my brain isn't make that leap ...:o (or is it cos I'm an :A - nah:rotfl: )
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • I missed the 2% conversation - it was when I was on holiday.....do you mean 2% of men/women who .............ohhhhh I can't think of another way to put it - have anal sex........


    there. I said it - chances are, it's bleeped me out anyway :rotfl:

    And - if that IS what it means - AQA has very different statistics........;)


    EDIT: OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! It didn't bleep it out!!!!!
    :D"Stay Wonky":D

    :j:jBecome Mrs Pepe 9 October 2012 :j:j
  • redsquirrel80
    redsquirrel80 Posts: 12,457 Forumite
    pepe2008 wrote: »
    Eye patches! One of my mates GF needs earplugs, maybe she needs to stop turning her head to one side at the crucial moments.....3 times now and she blames him:rotfl:

    :rotfl: or maybe one of those hats with the ear flaps?
    Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012.
    "I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."
  • You sweet and innocent, you :kisses3:

    It's a bit naughty :eek: illegal in some countries I think?
    I thought b*ggery was illegal anyway? lol
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
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