DFW Daily Chat 10th Nov

pepe2008

pania wrote: »

pepe,Just been there done that, sooo many "this isn't working and we need to sort it out" conversations, right until the day i end it completely then it's "i'll change i'll sort it!" so why the bloody hell has it come to me leaving for you to realise it!!! grrrr

Took me by surprise there Pania, felt like you were saying that directly to me....crikey, its all over before its begun:D


Bunny, you there? CII regs state that you can gain their Qualifications with a CCJ, its only if you wish to become a full member of the CII that you are expected to offer full disclosure of your credit history because you are then becoming more involved with giving advice to others. Any help?

Buffythedebtslayer

*Dee* wrote: »

Both our familys think we are a couple anyways. I personally think its my ex thats putting him off as they were really good mates and since this has been going on he has distanced himself from him.
We do coupley things just no round where we live, which doesnt bother me.
I have asked him about a relationship and he gave me some rubbish about if it didnt work it would ruin our friendship, so i said i think thats afely ruined now anyways.
He has never had a serious relationship where as i have had a couple so maybe he is scared or something?

TBH, that sounds like something I have done with a guy, we "saw each other" for over two years, I never really knew what was going on, most people thought we were a couple but in truth when I asked him why we couldn't commit he siad if we did it would all go pear shaped and ruin our friendship............... - we would date for six months or so and then he would be busy and only text/phone and then suddenly show up.

I say kick him to the kerb, mine still keeps in touch and it hurts to be honest.

I am convinced things don't have to that painful.

pania

he he pepe!!! no there is no way you are my other half!!! i meant my now ex was exactly the same in the end i got fed up with it and hoofed it!!

BB I love your upfrontness. you're fab.

Bunnyinthelights

Thanks Pepe,
Im sure that's what they are being told...I guess it just depends on whether or not they want to withdrawl the job offer. In the meantime, I sit and wait.
Why can I be so 'smart' but fluck up so spectacularly?

Burlesque_Babe

right, off out to brave the weather again. It looks as if it has stopped though so will wander out for a quick walkies and drop him home.

immoral_angeluk

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Thanks Pepe,
Im sure that's what they are being told...I guess it just depends on whether or not they want to withdrawl the job offer. In the meantime, I sit and wait.
Why can I be so 'smart' but fluck up so spectacularly?

This is not your fault hun. Don't beat yourself up about it. Things happen and you can't change that. Hopefully they will see that your CCJ will no affect you doing the job.

pepe2008

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Thanks Pepe,
Im sure that's what they are being told...I guess it just depends on whether or not they want to withdrawl the job offer. In the meantime, I sit and wait.
Why can I be so 'smart' but fluck up so spectacularly?

The CII website wasn't very clear, so I phoned them. I think its the 'advice' part that is the obstacle, I couldnt get full Financial Advisor status because of this a few years back. Its not a black and white situation though. Hope it works out for you.

Buffythedebtslayer

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Thanks Pepe,
Im sure that's what they are being told...I guess it just depends on whether or not they want to withdrawl the job offer. In the meantime, I sit and wait.
Why can I be so 'smart' but fluck up so spectacularly?

you haven't flucked up. you are great.

Honestly Bunny I am not just saying that. I have never read anything you have written that hasn't been funny, lovely, intelligent or kind.

Just please remember this job, great tho it is it is not the sum total of who you are.

xxx

notanothergreyhair

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Why can I be so 'smart' but fluck up so spectacularly?

...because you are human, like most of us

And, on another point, you haven't flucked up...you'll get there. Believe!

pepe2008

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Thanks Pepe,
Im sure that's what they are being told...I guess it just depends on whether or not they want to withdrawl the job offer. In the meantime, I sit and wait.
Why can I be so 'smart' but fluck up so spectacularly?

Well we all think you're flucking great:rolleyes: