PPI Reclaiming discussion Part III

Turboman

marshallka wrote: »

1) The interest rate was fixed

2) I am not understanding that one...

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Aha--fixed--that makes it easier for me to reconcile with my figures--

re 2)on your final statement from FP BEFORE the figures re/rebates/finance charges/your final payment was the balance £8,781.87 --as in Line 19 of post first chart in post 102041 ??

booi666

marshallka wrote: »

Just to say before I leave here for a while as I can now see I am not wanted or needed but I wanted to have a say.

Apologies if the spelling is not right at timnes cause I am a little upset writing this. I have been accused of bullying on here by one member and bullying of Di constantly (but not by Di herself). I have also been accused of lots more and have to say that was never my intention. I now understand that my different views of things and debt issues etc are not appreciated and the forum being run etc... I mentioned one thing on sunday and all this which now looking back I still cannot see for the life of me how I bullied anyone. The pm I got was probably the most upsetting things I have ever had said to me in my life and I have had to get my doctor involved now as I have this playing on my mind. I have been a regular poster on here since about march of last year. I have learnt so much from this and have had little debates over issues but I thought that is what made the world go around. I started out as feeling guilty for asking back my PPI to getting a passion for wanting everyone to win. This is wjhat my intentions were of my being here. I know I rush to answer posts and want tohelp in a way which some would call "over powering" but I really did not want to do that. I have helped lots get theirs back and sat up on some occasions night after night working out figures and also learning bits laws just to help out. It made me feel alive and it was HELPING people as Ithought.

After this weekend I realise that many (the regulars on here) have felt that I have taken over the thread and that it should be called the Marshallka thread. This was not my intention and the thing with credit crunched if anyone care to take a look over the posts was him that joined the thread sying that its was the fault of PPI reclaimers that he had lost his job and it bought back memories for me of the time when it was the fault of the sales person of the PPI that nearly lost me my home. (That I never want to do again.) I was annoyed that no one joined in but hey ho, thats life and I did think that everyone on here sat back and let him rag me. I was then accused by cc of making a personal attack on him which was actually another member too. I had this in a PM from him. I then replied to other things on the different threads and he actually told me I giving bad advice when in actual fact I was only trying to help.

Anyway, this person has made me feel most unwelcome and I understand now that although what Ithought was being nice was obvioulsy not as I have been told to apologise for the regulars to actually acknowledge me again.

I have tried to find the posts that could be contrued as bullying Di and cannot see where the person is coming from.


I have felt for a while people have been saying to me nicely on the forum " take a rest from it and you are the biggest poster on here etc etc" but it was actually good for my health being here but obviously not for anyone esle.
I have had a nice email from Turbo and I have asked if he felt at all that I was FOUL to him on his arrival and he said I was perhaps defensive but not FOUL. I have also asked Di if she felt bullied and she has said "no" and Iwould be grateful if anyone could post on here (I will be visiting for a look) where I have actually bullied anyone. Brock said what he did and I posted his interpretation of the thread on here in a post of mine... . I actually copied and pasted it from there.

This person has also told me that maybe my problems are cause of problems from the past etc... I did not realise I had any. I admit I have different views to some on here but I now realise if this is the case then maybe stay off. You are not allowed to be different.

I will post up again sometime perhaps and don;t know what has been said by any of the regulars on here about me posting between themselves etc but I have been told nothing and that it is just me and they all feel thesame about me for "themselves" and each and every one of them feel it. This has hurt me more than you can ever know. I only ever tried to help people. So leaving for a while and really hope all you that are trying for your PPIback and having trouble - fight on... thats what its about.

I have also been told this thread has had arguments (which Iwould call debates more than anything) in it cause of me. I am opinionated - yes and thought I could put my opinions over on here.

Bye for now and thanks for anyone that sent me messages after sunday.

Marsh,

I can only comment on the cc bit,

I thought he was being a rete tw-t and you told him good style,

I applaud you for that,as far as anything else im not sure where your coming from:A

I never thought it was your thread because it was mine:eek: :rotfl: :rotfl:

I thought you put your two peneth in more because you may have been through more or you knew more,


Am i making sense

Credit-Crunched

Can i just start by saying that this was never my intention, sure we disagree but never to cause you so much upset. You help people so much and i am sure they would be lost without your guidance.

Yes maybe take a step back and dont let it affect your health so much, but dont stop the help you issued to others.

At times our views are different, that will happen and its nothing more than two vocal opinated (pig headed i have been called ) people.

This is a sincere apology for any upset casued, not my intention and i hope you take this hwo it is meant to be.

I am not sure who pm'd you about bullying but i can assure you, you are not one. Stubborn liek me yes, bully no!

Chin up and stick with it!

See this as a ppi claim, few set backs but you keep fighting!!

yes i was bitter at the start and i apologise for that, redundancy does that to people!

Credit-Crunched

"I thought he was being a rete tw-t and you told him good style,"

tu*d burglar etc

these really do not help the cause, i may disagree on views but i never resort to personal insluts. I suggest you refrain from such further insults, you would not say it to my face so dont be so bold behind a forum.

I have never insluted anyone on here yet i ahve been branded many things, so please desist the name calling.

Natalie6999

marshallka wrote: »

Just to say before I leave here for a while as I can now see I am not wanted or needed but I wanted to have a say.

Apologies if the spelling is not right at timnes cause I am a little upset writing this. I have been accused of bullying on here by one member and bullying of Di constantly (but not by Di herself). I have also been accused of lots more and have to say that was never my intention. I now understand that my different views of things and debt issues etc are not appreciated and the forum being run etc... I mentioned one thing on sunday and all this which now looking back I still cannot see for the life of me how I bullied anyone. The pm I got was probably the most upsetting things I have ever had said to me in my life and I have had to get my doctor involved now as I have this playing on my mind. I have been a regular poster on here since about march of last year. I have learnt so much from this and have had little debates over issues but I thought that is what made the world go around. I started out as feeling guilty for asking back my PPI to getting a passion for wanting everyone to win. This is wjhat my intentions were of my being here. I know I rush to answer posts and want tohelp in a way which some would call "over powering" but I really did not want to do that. I have helped lots get theirs back and sat up on some occasions night after night working out figures and also learning bits laws just to help out. It made me feel alive and it was HELPING people as Ithought.

After this weekend I realise that many (the regulars on here) have felt that I have taken over the thread and that it should be called the Marshallka thread. This was not my intention and the thing with credit crunched if anyone care to take a look over the posts was him that joined the thread sying that its was the fault of PPI reclaimers that he had lost his job and it bought back memories for me of the time when it was the fault of the sales person of the PPI that nearly lost me my home. (That I never want to do again.) I was annoyed that no one joined in but hey ho, thats life and I did think that everyone on here sat back and let him rag me. I was then accused by cc of making a personal attack on him which was actually another member too. I had this in a PM from him. I then replied to other things on the different threads and he actually told me I giving bad advice when in actual fact I was only trying to help.

Anyway, this person has made me feel most unwelcome and I understand now that although what Ithought was being nice was obvioulsy not as I have been told to apologise for the regulars to actually acknowledge me again.

I have tried to find the posts that could be contrued as bullying Di and cannot see where the person is coming from.


I have felt for a while people have been saying to me nicely on the forum " take a rest from it and you are the biggest poster on here etc etc" but it was actually good for my health being here but obviously not for anyone esle.
I have had a nice email from Turbo and I have asked if he felt at all that I was FOUL to him on his arrival and he said I was perhaps defensive but not FOUL. I have also asked Di if she felt bullied and she has said "no" and Iwould be grateful if anyone could post on here (I will be visiting for a look) where I have actually bullied anyone. Brock said what he did and I posted his interpretation of the thread on here in a post of mine... . I actually copied and pasted it from there.

This person has also told me that maybe my problems are cause of problems from the past etc... I did not realise I had any. I admit I have different views to some on here but I now realise if this is the case then maybe stay off. You are not allowed to be different.

I will post up again sometime perhaps and don;t know what has been said by any of the regulars on here about me posting between themselves etc but I have been told nothing and that it is just me and they all feel thesame about me for "themselves" and each and every one of them feel it. This has hurt me more than you can ever know. I only ever tried to help people. So leaving for a while and really hope all you that are trying for your PPIback and having trouble - fight on... thats what its about.

I have also been told this thread has had arguments (which Iwould call debates more than anything) in it cause of me. I am opinionated - yes and thought I could put my opinions over on here.

Bye for now and thanks for anyone that sent me messages after sunday.

I hope that the SMALL MINDED people who have caused Marshallka to leave us are SATISFIED. Do none of you realise what a great asset she was to this cause.

You should all be ashamed of yourselves.

kazc_2

Hi
I know I haven't posted many times but have visited daily to keep up with what's been happening. I think it's such a shame what has gone on this week and so unnecessary!
People come on here not only for advice, but for some it's a social thing as well. You become so obsessed with PPI that you spend a lot of time on here and it's nice to see everyone having a laugh sometimes.
Marshallka and Di have been a godsend for a lot of people and it's such a pity that things have got out of hand. Perhaps things could have been said differently so not to cause the upset that it has.
It's only my opinion but I hope it gets sorted out soon.
Kaz

Toffee_Penny

Marshallka bullied me and so did Di :eek: ..................they bullied me into doing something about our ppi mis-selling and forced me to take the time out to write the initial letters firing off my ppi reclaims with 10 creditors. I now have received an offer and researching this thread has given me hope to fight our ppi claims all the way

I find it quite sad to read all the recent posts because as a newbie to this thread I have always felt that Marshallka and Di were like 'Cagney and Lacey' going after the horrible ppi sellers and helping all the 'I feel dead stupid where do I start' people like me with their ppi cases whilst fighting their own.

Your advice is really appreciated and needed to many many more people who are joining this forum everyday in need of help and encouragement.

I hope this can get sorted out xxx

mediator04

Hello

Hope this is okay to post.

Myself I had mixed reactions on some of the posts, but everyone are different, some posts may have looked harsh but maybe not meant to look that way, some maybe rather sensitive that again not meant to be.

I do know its best to have time out as well or it can get to you, then when over posting and not thinking the wrong words can come out and wrote different to what it should mean, this can be stress related but then you know its time for that time-out.

I am only registered yesterday but have been following this thread with interest, the chatting side of it does not bother me, its good to see that humour in those posts, this can also give a welcoming feel to newbie posters, but again if they see posts as harsh as such it can also turn them away.

Both Mishallka and di3004 I found a great team together, I can also see that harping did go on a little but not just by one person, there are several to be perfectly honest with you by many posters, so I will not point my finger and single people out.
I see there is one about a dinner the other day okay, so what, this person is just being chatty and friendly, it seems she like to let others know where she is in case of time of need, how friendly is that ?

As long as those posters get the help they need then they are happy, a welcoming feel is good, and yes claims are important to deal with as well.

Mishallks and di3004, keep up that good work, no-one is really critisising any of you, so get back to help out when you can.

Mishallka thank you for the post yesterday, and to di3004, about the autism websites, I am already a member of many may see you there di3304.


Good luck and I might pop back at some point, must spend little time with the daughter and now I am harping on. llol

tylerlewis

Natalie6999 wrote: »

I hope that the SMALL MINDED people who have caused Marshallka to leave us are SATISFIED. Do none of you realise what a great asset she was to this cause.

You should all be ashamed of yourselves.

I completely agree with this. Without Marshallka's advice I now don't know where to turn to when I need advice, which I could really do with now as HFC are being really ignorant!!

Come back we still love you xx

Natalie6999

I have just read that A & L, RBS Natwest, The Co-operative bank, Barclays & Lloyds group have ceased to sell single premium PPI.

I wonder if this wll help us with our claims?