BOB'S Cunning Plan

mizmir

In_Search_Of_Me wrote: »

well m 4p is better than nowt - will have to remind myself of that when I get about 12p this month from quidco!

Quite right! Should I save it up for something special or pay it off a debt I wonder.... Still have about £100 tracked so the next few months should be more profitable!

boredofbeingathome

It certainly does add up.

Well today i have completed a mystery shop, but i am honestly wondering whether it is worth it or not. I have another one tomorrow and i will see after that.

Am feeling a bit disgruntled with life at the moment. I think it is because Mr.B has gone into work for three days when he isn't paid extra and is given days in lieu..given that the Christmas break was supposed to be just that as he was using days owed him..I am totally naffed off. He was supposedly wanting to spend more time with me and sorting stuff out, instead it is back to the usual routine and falling asleep on couch at night. What am i supposed to do?? I wish i had an answer! We have spent all of Christmas with relatives visiting and i was looking forward to some 'us' time for a change...so i suppose i know where i stand in the list of priorities:mad:

So i have made a resolution to stop waiting around for folk and get on with my life, all chances are given and i refuse to feel guilty about situations not of my own making anymore.:cool:

So i am going to work as much as i can and basically get out there and join clubs and just get my life back..i am totally fed up of not having one and if i have to listen to him snoring on the couch again or moaning how knackered he is...... i will strangle something:cool: :rotfl:

So that's my New Year's resolution.:D

Hope everyone else has had a good one..off for a mooch then make tea.
Bob xx

mizmir

Aw hugs bob. No wise words but think you are right to get on with making and taking opportunities as they come along - you deserve more than to be taken for granted. Hopefully mr bob will wake up to that one day.

boredofbeingathome

Thanks Miz, i needed that. I suppose i have just been keeping a cheerful face all Christmas and was determined that nothing was going to spoil it.I think it was worse that he didn't tell me either, just snuck out yesterday and i felt a right burk explaining to DD1 not to come over till later as dad was at work..lol.Today we were going to enjoy a meal at the mystery shopping place, just sounds mardy really but i was looking forward to it.

pepe2008

I have been lying on sofa saying how knackered I am! But have just finished 13 hour 660km day!

mizmir

pepe2008 wrote: »

I have been lying on sofa saying how knackered I am! But have just finished 13 hour 660km day!

Think that's allowed! :eek:

pepe2008

Positive words Bob, we will be keeping an eye.
Me too, sort of. Dont pass up the opportunity for new experiences,
Stop trying to be what othr people expect me to be,
Dont accept the status quo.

mizmir

boredofbeingathome wrote: »

Thanks Miz, i needed that. I suppose i have just been keeping a cheerful face all Christmas and was determined that nothing was going to spoil it.I think it was worse that he didn't tell me either, just snuck out yesterday and i felt a right burk explaining to DD1 not to come over till later as dad was at work..lol.Today we were going to enjoy a meal at the mystery shopping place, just sounds mardy really but i was looking forward to it.

No - can understand you being p-ed off - I would be too. What is he on not even telling you?! I'm getting annoyed with him for you now! I would be putting my feet up and doing a bit of self spoiling. Do something just for you - even if it is just having a soak in the bath or putting your feet up with a glass of wine and a good book (or any combination of the above!) - what ever you fancy. And leave him to it!

The_Dragon

Hmm Bob, it is a shame you and the Boblets can't just book a few days away and when he asked why you didn't tell him, smile sweetly and say "Well you always seem to work during the holidays so I thought you weren't interested"

skint_spice

is mr bob maybe just a wee bit worried about his job at the mo? economic climate being what it is and all that? maybe he's not said anything not wanting to worry you...
if not lob a turnip at him!