BOB'S Cunning Plan

Karmacat

You have such a lot on your plate, Bob, sorry there's a tough domestic scene too. I'll be thinking of you, will wait to see you come back online.

Hugs.

beanielou

Huggles hun

In_Search_Of_Me

aww hugs for you...know what you mean about the site - its gone weird! Just posted on weezles and its gone...
sorry to hear that youre feeling down and having trouble with mr bob...hope you sort it soon....if things are really bad do you think he would consider marriage guidance? Can help but people do have to be prepared to do it which some arent!! This time of year is hard for all, esp us dfwers with the whole world going nuts over christmas....let me know if I can do anything to help...meanwhile big squidgy hug coming your way!

taxi73

Just sending you more hugs and hoping Drs went ok.

penguin83

Bob - just caught up on your thread, hope you are ok, sorry things are shitty at the mo - big hugs xx

boredofbeingathome

Thanks very much for all the supportive messages. It is appreciated and sorry for having a mood yesterday.

Well it is DD1'S BIRTHDAY today and she is the grand old age of 22..It only seems like yesterday when she turned 18..lol. Pressies all received in time so she is a happy DD.

DD2, has been to docs and it is looking like she has an arthritic condition like DD1. So blood tests tomorrow and a follow up dental appt as she was unwell enough to go to ours on Tuesday(yesterday..all get checkups together). Dentist was lovely and rebooked her for tomorrow and said if she wasn't fit enough to rebook again.

I escaped last night and volunteered at guides again, so i managed to keep away from causing an argument as i felt there was enough going on in the house. I went to sisters tonight as i had another present to deliver there for nephew's fiance as it was her 21st yesterday..bloomin dear month November.

I had to laugh today as i had paid of my credit card a while ago in a huff with them because they had reduced my limit for no good reason as i always kept a low balance on it or overpaid/ paid off in full. Letter today was increasing my limit..bananas the lot of them. I don't know what system they operate under but if anyone knows??? It was Halifax by the way.
So that is all for now.
Hope you are all well..xx

penguin83

Happy Birthday to your DD Bob!

Banks have no logic to them at all! HSBC have the ability to make me want to laugh and cry all at the same time!

Hope your feeling better x x

boredofbeingathome

Thanks pingu..i agree banks have no logic..lol

ZTD

boredofbeingathome wrote: »

Thanks pingu..i agree banks have no logic..lol

Well I wouldn't say that exactly - it just looks like they have no logic.

Banks want you to be in debt up to your eyeballs, but no further. They don't make money if you don't borrow anything, and they don't make money if you borrow too much. Somewhere in the middle, very close to "borrowing too much" is the "sweet spot". Which they go for relentlessly.

Combined with minimum wage back office staff, overworked non-minimum wage backoffice staff, and Indian call centres all making decisions about you, and you have a recipe for bizarrity on a bizarre scale...

boredofbeingathome

True Z, i think in their case i will decline their kind offer..i knew i should have shut down the card, so will write a letter.