Trying For a Baby II

emmzy

good luck to both of you next week then:D

musogirl295

Well it's certainly been quiet on here this weekend - everybody but me must have interesting lives! Hoping we get some more nice weather today- it's just too good to be true at the moment!

Have you tested yet Smartie?!?!

Muso x

mirrorimage0

hiya, i dont understand all the abbreviations and am getting confused, to be honest im just loitering as not sure yet wether we are going to go ahead and try again after a pretty terrible exp last year, we already have two boys aged 9 and 7 and hubby is happy either way whatever i decide but im just not sure, one minute i think yes definatley the next im like oh no sleepless nights again, no money back to the school runs and things, taking time off work.

im so in two minds so how did all you people decide

musogirl295

Welcome mirrorimage!

Have a look on here for all the abbreviations - http://www.tryingtoconceive.com/abbrevs.htm

DH and I are ttc our 1st. Originally we were going to wait until we could afford a bigger house but now with the credit crunch we're in negative equity so its going to be a long while before we can do that now. We also realised that we're actually in quite a good position so our previous reasonings for waiting didn't hold up anymore! I've had to do a few persuasion tactics on DH who is very scared but he came round to the idea a couple of months back so it's all systems go now!

Muso x

smartie12

I'm here!

I woke up needing a wee at 3.45 so I thought I'd better test as it was my first morning wee:rotfl:Half asleep I did cheapie test which consisited of weeing to mark in little pot and sticking stick in for 3 secs... not very easy to do when asleep!

BFN:(

:mad::mad::mad:

I wish I knew what was going on! CD33 - no sign of AF. Quite sure I OV'd well over 14 days ago cos I had CM over a few days. As I'm not charting/OV sticking I can't be certain though.

I had nearly 2 weeks of AF type pain - in my back and tummy, and my boobs have been getting huge and hurting I've been sick a few times and dizzy as well.

I wish AF would blimin well turn up so I know where I am!!!!

Lots of good luck to those hoping for BFP in the next week:)

musogirl295

So sorry Smartie, it must be so frustrating for you. Hopefully you're body will give itself a big kick up the proverbial and start to get into some kind of rhythm!

The OV tests haven't made it any easier for me, had faint lines for the last 4 days but no positive, so I'm just hoping that I missed it over the time we bd'd.

Why can't our bodies work to a set timetable , would be so much easier!

Muso x

kencokenco

Evansangel Im so pleased for you, you really do deserve it,

Although your other half sounds so like my hubby with his quote, I loved it, with the week ive had I really needed a laugh and your qoute from your other half made me laugh. so thankyou.

I wish you both a happy and healthy 9 months. again CONGRATULATIONS:beer::T:T

winnie72

We had a very early miscarriage last month was probably a chemical pregnany. Midwife said body should return to nornmal quickly due to being so early so we went for it again. BFP today. Fingers crossed this time I'm so nervous about it.

Good Luck all.
Winnie

mirrorimage0

thanks musogirl, like i said we already have two boys who are 9 and 7, we miscarried around 3 yrs ago and then again this xmas, i was 30 on fri and hubby is 43 so he is like if we are going todo it then its now as he feels he is getting to old. we are in a pretty ok financial situation but we are at the point were the kids are ok on there on own for a bit like if i want to have a bath or chat on the phone etc and holidays are great now no running up and down the side of the pool and having a heart attack every few mins lol so its quite nice at the moment but i do keep getting broody,, how do you know if its the wright or wrong decision, i just dont want to decide no and then regret it yrs later

becs

Ah Smartie,

Don't give up! I was looking at charts on fertility friend yesterday and there were quite alot on there that had several BFN's before a very late BFP. So could be, particually if you don't know for definate when you did ov. Don't lose hope, your symptoms sound promising!