Ive Turned On The Light

lucielle

Any news on the job front?
L

MissShoes

Hey stranger,

how are you? Just re-read your thread...again...I can't keep on top of my own diary let alone anyone else's!!

Congrats re: house, DDs party, job-hunting- I'm sure you'll sort a job soon.

My work is fine, I'm completely overwhelmed by how much I have to do but that's probably because I'm full of flu and feeling sorry for myself. Luckily, like you, I now have a fab BF (I call him LL- latino loverboy) who is being a gem. Think breakfast in bed, dishes washed, food shopping done, medicines and teas provided at regular intervals plus painting my flat!

Sounds like your doing well. I wish I could keep on top of PAD- if I'm honest I've lost my way with some of my debts and payments. My resolution over easter is to sort out standing orders, payments, budget etc. I'm just keeping my head above water but only because I have fantastic friends who can bail me out...

Love Miss Shoes xx

Smamfer

Hi guys,

Thanks for popping in ladies...

Re job nothing heard yet but they did say it would be a week before they got in touch which should take me to tomorrow so fingers crossed but the way im feeling now i dont feel hopeful.

Im 2 weeks from behind paid i have about £50 to my name without touching any cards etc and its getting on top of me. I was feeling so positive but with work being slack and not bringing in what i had hopes im semi relying on BF a bit and i know he doesnt mind but as he seems to have put me in charge of finances im the one fretting and hes just saying..." we will be ok" I know we will as we always are and he does earn a decent wage but still doesnt stop me feeling inadequate

Anyway hope everyone is ok xxx

lucielle

I recognise those feelings so well. Keep yer chins up chuck!
L

Smamfer

lucielle wrote: »

I recognise those feelings so well. Keep yer chins up chuck!
L

:rotfl: Lol at me constantly suffering from double chins! cheeky mare


thansk tho hun didnt think i was alone x

lucielle

Think yerself lucky if you've only got 2!!!!!!!!
L

Smamfer

lucielle wrote: »

Think yerself lucky if you've only got 2!!!!!!!!
L

Yeah but they rest on me bellies lol

Speaking of which im being an ultra good girl!

DD got a Wii for her birthday and last wknd my sis bought her the wii fit... and im doing my 30 mins every day... Thing is why some bloody machine thinks it can tell me im overweight is beyong me...cheeky thong lol


I am tho... but i will crack this and i will make my trainer ( ok so he is just a computer thing) proud of me!:D

Smamfer

Morning all!

Still skint so treading carefully and working lots of hours this wknd.. think it totalt about 30 between now and sunday night... gee dont you just love wknds!

Anyway i just called up about that sex shop job as they said it would be a week and got told on the phone they interviewed someone the other day and its been taken.

So ive wrote !!!!!! for 8 years and ive ran my own pub for 3 years and i dont have what it takes to work in a sex shop

what do these people want at times!

ah well onwards and upwards back to job sites

Smamfer

Ok so who has brought gales to south lincs

2 Fencing panels come clean out of their concrete posts and my rotary washing line looks like it has a motor in it its whirling that much.... lovely breeze but its peeing it down too :rolleyes: no washing being dried here today!


Anyway quick update...(pfft as if im ever quick about anything :rotfl: )

Got a call from CSA yesterday for OH as we worked it out he was paying far too much and what with taking on new house our spare cash obviously would be less...( ok ok ok so they non existant at the moment :rolleyes:)

Anyway we put down his proper earnings.. we sent off wage slips,, we stated he was now part of mine and my daughters life as they take other children into the calculations we also said that we would be having the whildren approx once a week ie holidays for bulk loads and wknds xmas's etc. They rang us yesterday quoting £150 more than the original calculation as they contacted the mother who said.." he never sees his kids he wont have them that much no matter how much i beg" :mad::rolleyes::mad::rolleyes: Now if you read back a few posts we had them for the wknd not so long back. My OH also works mad shifts like 4 on 2 off so wknds are a rareity, thus meaning when he does have a wknd off we ask to have them and she says no!
Two months ago he asked for a full list of school holidays so we could plan his holidays from work to have them here...( they are in yorkshire we are in lincolnshire) /... we never got these forms.
He asked his ex last night if he could have the kids next wknd as they break up for a few days and she said " not sure what my plans are " she obviously knows that if we have kids it reduces her money, its not the money thats an issue here its the fact that she has lied and stopping him seeing his kids!

When explaining this to the CSA they said .." obviously we dont know if you are lying or if she is but we have to take her word for it, the only thing we can suggest is you keep a 3 month diary of when you have the children that both of you must sign...( yeah right like she is going to do this) and we will try and look at it again but by law we dont have to review your case for 52 weeks:mad::rolleyes::mad::rolleyes: "

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ( <<once again putting tony the bloody tiger to shame on that one)


xx

lucielle

Have you thoguth about writing naughty novels? There are special writers workshops that have this genre.
L