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Journal: Thought for the day

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  • rainmac
    rainmac Posts: 7,063 Forumite
    Home Insurance Hacker! Cashback Cashier
    Sorry not posting a question (brain asleep today), just wanted to say loving this thread, full of things to make you really think :-)
    :wave: If you want the rainbow, you've got to put up with the rain :wave:
  • mary43
    mary43 Posts: 5,845 Forumite
    Here's mine for today (sorry if someone already mentioned it)

    What makes you really angry and how do you deal with it ?

    What sort of things do others do that irritate you - and do you think you've got any irritating habits ?
    Mary

    I'm creative -you can't expect me to be neat too !
    (Good Enough Member No.48)
  • I have started writing all of them down. I plan to buy myself a nice pad (maybe a pukka pad or similar and then start to answer them. When I was on my own with Thomas (my son) I never had any adult conversation, I rarely used to leave the house and I used to sit and write how I felt in a notebook and sometimes I would just use a whole page to SCCCCRRREEEAAAMMMM lol and I still have it. Amazing how many silly things used to bug me :)
    Raising kids is like being held hostage by midget terrorists
  • mary43
    mary43 Posts: 5,845 Forumite
    Snap !! Great minds and all that.............I'm doing just the same...............lol
    I used to keep a diary -not just to make note of what happened that day/week but how I felt about it................wouldn't want anyone to read it though.................lol
    Mary

    I'm creative -you can't expect me to be neat too !
    (Good Enough Member No.48)
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 28,953 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    mary43 wrote: »
    Snap !! Great minds and all that.............I'm doing just the same...............lol
    I used to keep a diary -not just to make note of what happened that day/week but how I felt about it................wouldn't want anyone to read it though.................lol
    I've shredded a few of them!:rotfl:
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/25
  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Not quite sure how to turn this into a question but it makes a good errm IYKWIM...

    My FIL used to say that he would stand on MIL's shoulders to get the children out of danger...I think at the particular time we were talking a sinking ship, so the kids would need to be as high up as possible. At the time, I thought that was an awful thing to say about your beloved husband/wife--so very obviously it was before I became a parent myself :oIt wouldn't bother me AT ALL now, cuz the offspring's dad walked several many years ago :p

    There was also a time when I sharpened the carving knife every day, so if the bomb were to drop, I would see to the children & then myself...

    Cheerful little soul aint I :D but I guess my question is; to what lengths are you prepared to go, in order to prevent your loved ones from harm/ pain/ suffering? Do you have a cast iron resolve to carry out whatever is necessary? What are your criteria for deciding that time has come?
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • BigMumma - you're scaring me now!

    My thought for the day/tomorrow

    If you had to write your own epitaph and sum yourself up in one line - how would you want to be remembered?
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/25
  • mary43
    mary43 Posts: 5,845 Forumite
    Here's mine for today:

    Can you keep a secret ?
    Mary

    I'm creative -you can't expect me to be neat too !
    (Good Enough Member No.48)
  • What's the most exciting thing you've done today?

    Really? How can you make tomorrow more exciting?
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
    2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
    4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
    5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/25
  • rainmac
    rainmac Posts: 7,063 Forumite
    Home Insurance Hacker! Cashback Cashier
    Do your nearest and dearest know of your wishes when you die? Write them here and then tell someone.
    :wave: If you want the rainbow, you've got to put up with the rain :wave:
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