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The Compers Inn - Part 5

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  • Morning guys, thanks for being there for me last night.
    I've spoken to the girls other half this morning, told him all I know - he wasn't angry at me, just very upset. I've apologised for having to tell him, but he agreed that if he had been in the same position, he would have also.
    She denied when he asked her, but then confessed to just once. I think its more than that.
    Anyway, he has gone out this morning to speak to his friend/boss at work. When he comes back, I want him and the stuff out of the house.
    Fresh beginning for september.
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • Stargirl29
    Stargirl29 Posts: 1,775 Forumite
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    Good luck Melvis, I missed it too ;)

    Well..last day of freedom before I get back to school tommorow, I was planning on having a catch up day of comps (snuggling in my hoodie and drinking coffee all day!) but I have to make a trip to Natwest :mad: I got 3 phone calls yesterday saying they were from the fraud dept. but I thought it was a scam - then went on line and saw my balance...

    Now got to go down and see what it's all about (luckily we're not using it as our primary bank anymore so not much money in there!). Fingers crossed its nothing serious!

    Hey ho..gonna get a coffee and get the dailys done before I go out! Have a lovely day everyone! :D
  • Stargirl29
    Stargirl29 Posts: 1,775 Forumite
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    Morning guys, thanks for being there for me last night.
    I've spoken to the girls other half this morning, told him all I know - he wasn't angry at me, just very upset. I've apologised for having to tell him, but he agreed that if he had been in the same position, he would have also.
    She denied when he asked her, but then confessed to just once. I think its more than that.
    Anyway, he has gone out this morning to speak to his friend/boss at work. When he comes back, I want him and the stuff out of the house.
    Fresh beginning for september.

    I missed it all last night, but I think you've done the right thing. I 'd want to know aswell, no matter how hard it would be. Hope you have a good start to your new beginning today. Stay strong xx :)
  • VelvetGlove
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    gerturdeanna - *hugs* hun, I was thinking about you after I went up last night (not in a freaky way though!) just hoping that you were OK & it wasn't majorly bad for you after his phone call. I bet you are so relieved you've spoken to the guy as that must have been quite stressful waiting to do that. I hope it goes smoothly later for you when you try to get IT out.
    Sad because you don't know what to do? :sad: Comping question? Take a look in the Comping Guide to find out :smiley:
  • Splodz
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    Morning all...

    gerturdeanna - I hope all works out for the best. It must be really difficult to work out what to do and say next, but I'm sure you'll make the right choices. Lots of hugs coming from the comps board to you - we might not know you really but are all here for you.

    Stargirl - hope you get your bank account sorted. How scary thinking that someone has been at your money.

    Right, I'm off to do a few comps and then it's writing for me today... results section here we come!
    Life is all about the journey.
  • Morning all! Seems I won't be doing much comping today, both the girls had a nasty cough & Tixylix not shifting it so got GP's appointment this morning. Was supposed to be going out later, eldest DD wanted to have tea at Grandad's & seeing as he's round the corner from GP's I'll be going straight round.

    Need to push DH to back up my Roboform onto a CD if it's possible then I can do some up there when I'm up!
    2025 - finally back comping after a stressful house move - send me fairy dust please
  • It was stressful thinking about what I was going to say, so I wrote it down so I wouldn't forget and get all emtional. ExOH still hasn't said anything even though she called him last night and told him that her bloke knew.
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • Computertec
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    Good Morning Guys and Girls :)
  • aww not sure whats going on with you gerturdeanna but sending you hugs and hope it all works out for you xxxx.
    Thanks to all posters and contributers :beer:
  • toniq
    toniq Posts: 29,340 Forumite
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    Geturdeanna hope it goes well too xxxxxx
    #JusticeForGrenfell
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