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Weekly Flylady Thread 4th August 2008

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  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,794 Forumite
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    This is like sitting waiting for a time bomb going off. No emails yet....
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    No kidding..... mostly by me though..... !!!!!! was I doing ironing his shirts in the first place!!!!!??????? :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    Love it PMSL - sorry sarah shouldnt laugh but it did get me going!!! And I cant imagine you doing his ironing anyway - you always seem so in control and logical and give fabulous advice - please dont change !!!:D :D:D
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    AND.. because I have not forgotten how much you all NEED me.
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • nicki_2
    nicki_2 Posts: 7,321 Forumite
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    Valli wrote: »
    Do you find, Nicki, that your ex communicates through your DD? After my lucid, sensible phone call to mine earlier this week, during which he said he would need evidence (ie a letter) that he has access to kids and they can stay overnight with him (some housing/council requirement so he can get a 3 bedroom one, I suppose) and I said I'd write one, I've had a message, through DD that he needs one. Clearly she hasn't the first clue - because I 'have to write a letter saying her dad has power over her!' I think he should have the good grace to ask me, direct.

    Ex and I have communication - via email & text, in person, we both have blogs (not that either of us keeps them that up to date :rotfl: ) etc. I can be a MAJOR bi*ch though at times (combination of stress & hormones & lack of sleep usually - and everyone keeps out my way then including DD :o ) and when that happens it usually happens through a text so nothing is said or done for days until he texts DD to let her know arrangements for him seeing her on the Sunday (yes, my 7-year-old has a mobile of her own :rolleyes: It was my idea so that she can keep in touch with whomever she is away from, free SIM and my old mobile so only costs top-ups ;) £15 since Christmas! :D ) :o I had a major blow out at him over last weekend (stress & hormones, compounded by disturbed/lacking sleep) and he hasn't bothered speak to me at all through the week but did text/email DD (oh, she has her own email too - but only accessed through me ;) ) and today he offered (through remembering something :eek: ) to do something for me so I took that as a "I know you blew up...lets leave that behind and move on with stuff" :o We can but try...
    Creeping back in for accountability after falling off the wagon in 2016.
    Need to get back to old style in modern ways, watching the pennies and getting stuff done!
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 17,807 Forumite
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    Oops... posted on the wrong thread... and my PC won't let me delete!
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