Marriage over don't know where to start

scottishfreebiehunter

relax whats that again:rotfl:
Oh my ds said you are very pretty and the other is well UGLY:D:T
He was asking who pictures were etc nosy wee devil,he said to me mummy do not worry we know daddy loved you,using it as an excuse saying he didnt:eek::rotfl::T

kizzykizzywizzy

Your DS has great taste in Women shame you husband has lost his!! & likes buck teeth cows

julie2710

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Night SFH - not much of an achievement that so many cheats around though:o
Jules, sorry, have neglected you tonight, you are being very fair to have Ex in the hospital with you, you must feel very emotional about it all.
When I think of giving birth to our 2 children, it really upsets me so much when I saw my husbands face when our daughter was born, he was so happy & we were both crying with happiness & it's making me cry now just thinking about it & that's all in the past.
I'm just so sorry that your stupid husband will miss that moment, because it's the best feeling in the world, & when YOU have that feeling it will be YOURS to remember forever, sorry I hope I've worded that OK.
I just mean you are going to have the best feeling ever, whilst stupid man won't

Thanks Kizzy Haven't felt neglected! We all have so much to cope with sometimes it just all get's a bit much. I'm actually feeling suprisingly strong at the moment?:j Told my boss about the situation yesterday before I left but asked her to not mention it to anyone at work. She was really great, but started crying so that nearly set me off!! She said I was being really strong but I need to be for my baby and son. Did some gardening with my little boy today. Probably not the best thing to do at just under 38 weeks pregnant but we felt great for it and although it doesn't sound like much we got about 4ft of really overgrown garden clear and filled up our green bin completely so had to call it a day!:T Was absolutely knackered though and son is too so he should get a good night. OH is going to start taking stuff out tomorrow night and will be gone completely by Saturday!:beer: I'd have a drink if I wasn't in this state!!
Haven't read any further yet so hope everyone's ok!

scottishfreebiehunter

:eek:no not the best thing to do at 38 weeks,you may end up having baby earlyxx
Jules it will be difficult next few days but keep youre chin up for that new babyxxx


OMG cannot find the photo of her ,the t w i t must have deleted it from my pc,he is very technicaly minded and probaby still nosing at my stuff linked up to his laptop etc mmmmm

kizzykizzywizzy

Oh Jules are you "nesting?" both of mine were 2 weeks early, I know you are having a c-section, but things might be on the move!
Well, how you are being so strong I don't know - just go careful, as I have been so up & down, & when you hit the down's :eek: I just feel the mental strain of all of this is horrendous.
The best bit for you is that you have your baby to look forward too :T :j how wonderful:A & then you are going to be so busy ( kn$ackered:p ) you won't have time to think about your EX.
Just don't do too much, OK

kizzykizzywizzy

What a shame would've liked to have put a face to a name ( buck toothed biatch )

julie2710

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Also & this is going to sound so selfish, all I hear is hows the kids, don't upset the kids - you need to be strong for the kids as though that's all I'm here for to look after the kids ( badly ) & that's all the use I am, like I'm nothing & that it doesn't matter how I feel.

Hi Kizzy Just making my way through the thread to catch up - can't believe how you're feeling. You were doing so well.
You are allowed to be selfish, what do you think he's doing??? What he done to make sure the kids aren't upset? Leave, shag someone else, make out things could be ok, harrass you just when you're feeling stronger, hurt their mum..................could go on forever!!!:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

kizzykizzywizzy

Thanks Jules, yes I was terrible last night & this morning, no booze involved either!
I was so bad I was sobbing walking the kids to school & couldn't stop!
A random teacher at my DD's new school came over to me & said something like having a bad morning sweetheart & cuddled me & I cried all over her - I don't know who she was ?? & she didn't know why I was crying, but she was lovely:A

scottishfreebiehunter

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

What a shame would've liked to have put a face to a name ( buck toothed biatch )

When he comes up Monday I will wait until he uses his pc and grab it before it logs itself off and see if it is on there ,cannot believe I cannot find it looked everywhere

Then some random scottish women calls her up walking to Tesco:rotfl::D

Yip Jules you take care and wish you all the best,is he going to be at the birth?sorry if mega nosy question?

kizzykizzywizzy

I'm sorry folks, I'm going to have to love you & leave you - ( i said that without thinking:rotfl: )
Really tired & eyes sore head pounding & I really need my beauty sleep for tomorow night, going out a bit earlier now too as we are having a meal too:D

Take care everyone;) xx