over spend and over eat

Skint_Lynne

Aww CC,

I don't know what to suggest. Do you live with him? Men can be strange creatures. My DH done a bunk a couple of years ago, said that he didn't love me. I suspected him of having a bit on the side which he denied. But it all stank of that. However, he called 3 weeks later, asking to come home. It's been fine ever since and we got married last year (have been together about 12 years).

He works away a lot, so I have made the choice just to trust him. If it happened again, he would be away, no questions about it!!!

The only thing you can do is try and speak to him about things as it is obviously annoying you. I must warn you, you might not like what you hear, but I believe that everything happens for a reason and if the worst does happen, you will move on and meet someone else who deserves you. It's really hard to let go if you love someone, I was in bits when DH done that, but in hindsight it was the best thing that happened.

On the other hand, he might just be a moody so and so and was tired last night.

Good luck and if you need to talk just PM if it is private.

SL x

crazychatter

Thank you so much Lynne! I think I'll give it another shot this weekend and if it doesn't improve then I'll have to talk to him, x

Skint_Lynne

No probs hon,

I'm here if you need to talk.

SL x

bluejeans

hiay gang, hope all is well. just a quickie. Sending this from mams puter, yes mine gone down again arrrrrggggg. so its looking like i will have to use mams for a while but cant get to it very often. i will update asap. lossed 1.5lbs but havnt got time to updaye my tracker at the moment hope to do it saturday, when i will have more time to read post and chat. sooo sorry this is a garbbled das just thought you may be wondering where i gone too.

Love to all.

be back asap.

jo x

wanttobeasaver

HI:hello: :hello:

uH CC I always think your better having a wee chat about things thats what i always try & do if DH & I are going through a bit of icy period to see whats bothering either 1 of us.........altho you know what mens like sometimes 1 word answers:mad:

Blue jeans i was wondeering were you had got to ahhh poor you without computer:eek: well we are all trying t keep on the straight & narrow:T

I must admit i feel a lot lot better today i was just drained yesterday:mad: not nice........just that time of the month altho it was about 6 months built up:mad:

So whats every1 at today??..........

LilMissEmmylou

http://screamer.edc.com/video?id=7062 can u all do me a HUGE favour and quickly sign up (short fill in thank goodness) and vote me. Its to help me win tickets to the MTV awards this yr Ill love u all forever (not that i dont anways lol, but extra love ey lol).

Also bought new electric scales today....was sure my old ones must be wrong as i never changed weight in weeks (they r those pin ones that the dial just moves around) anyways im 5lbs lighter than my old scales told me!!!
so im under the 11 1/2 stone mark now woohooo! need to lose 6 1/2 lbs to get to the 11 st mark now, so thats my next target

crazychatter

Will do Emmylou, just waiting for the email, great scream!!
That is great! Wow what a great loss, silly old scales!!!
xx

wanttobeasaver

EMMYLOU just waiting email confirmation.........boy you can screeeeeaaammmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!well done on weight loss:beer:

Well it was weigh day for me too & yes ive lost another 3 lbs:T :T :T thats 1stone 1lb:beer: im 11 13 now its great getting down into this!! really would like to lose another 2 stone but im aiming for 14lb for christmas:eek: but i will do it how many weeks is that?? 9/10? o it just gives you a buzz to see the scales going in your favor!! & I walked my 4 miles....

IM working tonight so hopefully they will buy plenty as its for charity i usually give the host 10% of her sales but im donating 30% to the charity as its for a good cause -& i still stand to make a few pounds.

anyway to update my siggy!!! ye ha:beer:

LilMissEmmylou

thats CC and WTBAS

WTBAS - well done on the loss!!!

I get cheekier btw guys - lol just realised u can vote once a day... doh... lol could u possibly click on the days u have a few secs to spare saying as u have signed up already? pleeeease lol x

wanttobeasaver

:rotfl: Realised you could only vote once a day as i was clicking & clicking:eek:

O still cant believe about my weight loss im thrilled!!

for brekkie..........cornflakes

lunch...........2 brown small baps with cornation chicken

had coffee with pink & white theyve been a life saver for something sweet yet on ww there only half a point:cool:

tea will be HM chicken korma, boiled rice & naan.....BEFORE GOING TO WORK

Not working 2moro as ive some1 covering the market for me as from now ojn in ive things happening every week so promised DS id watch him play footie:footie: :footie: :footie: :footie: :footie: as ive to work most sats & dont get to see him play unless the matches are during the week...........

My shower has broken in my ensuite so il either have to take a bath or ive a shower in bathroom which dosent go great before going to work so think il go soon & get ready as ive to be out of house about 630.....