Story For Fathers Separated From Their Children

affordmylife

the truth will out - as the saying goes.

im truly pleased for you NAR you and your daughter got what you both deserve in the end.

what a sad woman her mother must be.

hope to hear more good news about your other daughter soon.

all the best.

xx

katiekittykat

That is great news - well done You must be over the moon.

Thanks for sharing and telling us all your story

xxxxxx

wifeforlife

OMG I'm crying in happiness for you NAR and your daughter

It's a truely wonderful time for you and your children and I sincerely hope and wish you the best for the future with them

I just hope my own dd's dad comes back and makes an effort and has the same wonderful joy from my DD as you've had from your's

Your reap what you sow and your ex will certainly find that out

Best of Luck to you
Cate

Gingham_Ribbon

That made me cry. Such wasted years but what a fantastic ending. Well done and many congratulations.

belfastgirl23

I am really pleased for you too...but I'd also sound a note of caution. One day your daughter is going to realise that she loves both her parents. Her mum might not be perfect but she is still her mum and while she has obviously made mistakes, eventually your DD will realise that she too is only human. I'd say let her rant all she wants about her mum but don't get involved in it yourself. As someone from a divorced background I always appreciated that my parents (more or less) didn't get involved in slagging each other off to me. I know your ex has done what she has done but hopefully you can rise above this. In the long term your DD will notice and appreciate it.

But I am really happy for you too...

NAR

belfastgirl23 wrote: »

I am really pleased for you too...but I'd also sound a note of caution. One day your daughter is going to realise that she loves both her parents. Her mum might not be perfect but she is still her mum and while she has obviously made mistakes, eventually your DD will realise that she too is only human. I'd say let her rant all she wants about her mum but don't get involved in it yourself. I know your ex has done what she has done but hopefully you can rise above this. In the long term your DD will notice and appreciate it.
But I am really happy for you too...

I have never in 7 years bad mouthed my ex to anyone - it was obvious for all to see what sort of person she was. I most certainly will not be starting now, as far as I am concerned the future with my girl(s) is what is important to me. I will never try and stop them from seeing their mother if they wish, as I know the hurt that can involve.
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