Ebay Issue With Seller, who has 2 Identities and have not received The Items.

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franki_xx wrote: »

I have not read the original post as it has been edited.

But if i knew your ebay username, i would definately put you on my block list - OP

It's not difficult to work out.... http://myworld.ebay.co.uk/savagevixen

savagevixen

franki_xx wrote: »

I have not read the original post as it has been edited.

But if i knew your ebay username, i would definately put you on my block list - OP

Yes thanks. I am a really bad person aren't I. I paid for goods. I was concerned when they didn't arrive. I do not regularly neg people at all. I was not trying to hide my username. I simply did not know what was going on.
You do not know me, or why I was concerned. In fact you know nothing about it. Would I really have bothered here had I not had genuine concerns about what was going on.

savagevixen

Hintza wrote: »

Just a couple of points to play devils advocate.

Haggling P+P after buying is a no no but I think you know that.

I also think you have pulled the trigger on this one too early and it has all got a bit nasty now. OK I like things to arrive in a timely fashion but apart from a friendly email to enquire I don't tink I would have got too upset until the weekend.

Anyway daggers are now drawn and a neg left oh well.

On a final note (from me-you can all carry on abusing me as long as you like) I think that Hintza hit the nail on the head. I never said I wouldn't pay, I said it seemed a little high, she mailed me back that it was for her time. So I paid immediately on receipt of this information. No haggling or abuse.
I think that on both sides the negativity took over. I'll admit I was blunt, but she had not answered emails, and so I had begun to feel aggreived. I am not normally so blunt. I allow up to 2 weeks generally, before concern. I myself have many children and 2 are disabled. I know how dfficult it can be to get to the Post Office. We did not have good comms, then I discovered they were the same seller. Then was informed they were posted and have a tracking number. I was concerned as prior to this thread, I did not know 'tracking' was only when it arrived. Seller told me twice it should have arrived and pretty much ordered me down to the PO. My OH went and nothing. So yes i was a bit concerned. Had the emails not been so awful, then I would not have got so upset.
I also thought that positive, neutral and negative feedback reflected the ebay experience with that person. Negative means a negative experience with that person. I have had a very negative experience with that person and so I left negative feedback. Maybe I have misunderstood the use of the feedback, but I have not had much call to use it. So if I have been wrong I am sorry.
I also opened the dispute, to take it to a third party and stop our emails. So that they were mediated.