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Another potential break up
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:rotfl:QWERTY55, the stats that her finding a partner are not in her favour, a sex interest maybe. The figure I was quoted that if a girl is over 28 then there is 1 chance in 20 that she will ever get married. and there is a 55% chance that she will be divorced again (it is amazing what you hear on the radio)
:rotfl: What's this got to do with the OP's current situ? :rotfl: should the OP use as a tactic to persuade his wife not to kick him out?! :rotfl:0 -
:rotfl: What's this got to do with the OP's current situ? :rotfl: should the OP use as a tactic to persuade his wife not to kick him out?! :rotfl:[/quote]
hhehehe i can just picture that now.
Hey darling please please don't kick me out statistics say you prob won't get anyone else anyway!!0 -
MonkeySaving? wrote: »Trolltastic! Should have acted as the above before you dipped your one eyed trouser snake into someone elses quivering love pudding!
Quivering love pudding??!! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:A budget is like a speed sign - a LIMIT not a TARGET!!
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galvanizersbaby wrote: »:rotfl: ...
:rotfl: What's this got to do with the OP's current situ? :rotfl: should the OP use as a tactic to persuade his wife not to kick him out?! :rotfl:
There is only one way out as far as I'm concerned, that is time, softy spoken communication and TOTAL HONESTY (unless he has done, fantasizes in doing, or is still doing more of the same, or doing worse - then he has to shut up about this/these, and the visions of her sister forever!
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When one suffers a bad deal, it might be better the devil you know. There are a raft of reasons why he should stay. There are also a raft of reason why he should go. These apply to both parties.
You are more betrayed by a friend's/partner's deceit than a greater one inflicted by a stranger. Non of us know her, or him really. We do not know how the other half really feels and the situation, the history, what it going through their head, or how forgiving/accepting they are. It is wrong to put our individual values on them from what is said here. He alone, knowing her, is the one that can best predict the outcome, the rest of us just guess and give random one sided advice to how we would react and that is really worth about zilch, bar as a concept idea. So 25% of men under 40 get divorced, and it could be him. Also people have done much worse and are still with their partner (did someone mention Jeffery Archer in a post?)
Yep, Trolltastic! Much better than Sun's 'Dear Deidre' http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/deidre/GOOGLE it before you ask, you'll often save yourself a lot of time.
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