Two weeks later

Mupeteer

Cheers Kika, I should be around later on. I''m going to try to get a bit more work done on the cleaning/gutting/removing all traces of ex front then I'll be back.

notenoughcash

I had a terrible relationship with my dad until a couple of years ago. It was so bad I had to leave home at 17, I didn't dare call the police to him any more incase he got in trouble. Sounds a bit strange but no matter what I adore this bloke because he's my dad and couldn't deal with him being in a cell. Things got a bit better once I'd left home but still not great. But a couple of years ago he had a serious illness and his life was in danger, since then he's been a different man. I don't know if it put things into perspective for him but I now laugh with the my dad for the first time I remember in my life.

Mupeteer

That's the really difficult bit - I love him and would hate for anything to happen to him (already had a cancer scare with him) but he doesn't do very well as fathers go. I think I find it worse because we were really close when I was younger, until he realised I wasn't a little girl who would believe everything he said and worship the ground he walked on. He has let me down and hurt me so many times now that it has become what is expected, but I always hope he'll surprise me.

bubbles0169

helloooo x
can you take a few days off to look after your new doggy friend til shes comfy then you can go back to work
dogs do stay at home on their own, you do go home everyday dont you, i mean you dont work away?

Mupeteer

Yeah, I go home everyday
I should get her on a Friday afternoon or a Saturday and I was planning on taking the Monday off so we could have a long weekend to get used to each other. Do you honestly think it's a good idea? Because, with people I know trying their hardest to put me off, I'm really starting to doubt it.

bubbles0169

you said yerself yer dads a no gooden, sorry to be blunt but why listen to that advice
remem how excited you were and im sure the home wont let you have her if they thought you couldnt look after her xx

Mupeteer

Thanks bubbles. I needed to hear that.

Mupeteer

Even Sex and the City seems to be conspiring against me. It's a program I usually love but it's just highlighting all the crappy bits in my life tonight.

Wol2

Mupeteer wrote: »

Yeah, I go home everyday
I should get her on a Friday afternoon or a Saturday and I was planning on taking the Monday off so we could have a long weekend to get used to each other. Do you honestly think it's a good idea? Because, with people I know trying their hardest to put me off, I'm really starting to doubt it.

Hi Flower

Who has been trying to put you off?? Do what you feel is right for you. After all, it is your life, you know what you need at the moment. Go with your gut.....It will never let you down.....Might give you a few hairy moments now and then, but hey, what is a bit of diahorroea between friends:rotfl:

Seriously though, we think you are making the right decision, take heart and stick with it.

Massive love and hugs

poorwolclone

bubbles0169

muppet if yer not confoosed by who thats signed by you will be haha
i gotta go bed now but go to owls and all will become clear and you will be cheered up, you know you willxxxx