Two weeks later

Mupeteer

Pania, thank you. What fantastic name ideas. They will definitely be inder consideration.

pania

no worries. absolutely K9 crazy myself. but living in a rented house right now so no pets allowed grrr.... big hugs hope you sleep well tonight. xxx

Buffythedebtslayer

Hi Mupeteer, I am meant to be going to to bed. but found your thread here so thought i 'd have a read.

I love Dogs, have wanted my own for ages, but its not going to happen cos at the moment I live with at home, and Mum just tolerates my current pets. she wants a dog, but that will not happen just yet, my sister keeps putting her off.

I really sorry you have had such a rough time of it, a dog will definitely help. (((hugs))) in case you feeling icky right now. I am having a not fun time with the male of the species at the moment. trying not to let it get me down. once term has finished am going to clear out and move round my furniture in the hope of a fresh start to get shot of a rubbish year at work and a rubbish year generally.

if you want a buddy for debt free ness I have roughly the same amount of debt.

keep in touch and good luck with your new girl

xxxxxxxxxx
take care hon,

kika

A dog is great idea and photo is good What about "socks"? Too obvious?

Sunny_Donny

Seeing as your log in name is mupeteer, what about a chatacter from there??

Or Jelly Baby?????

Mupeteer

I've lost my motivation and just feel like hiding today. I'm still in bed and can't see any reason to get out. It's a beautiful day outside but somehow that only makes me feel worse.
I'm really annoyed with myself as I've got so much still to do but just can't be bothered. It looks like trying to eradicate all trace of him from the flat isn't working. I'm feeling so low.

Careful_with_that_Axe

Mupeteer, one step at a time sweetie. You can't expect to do everything at once, so breathe slowly and calmly and try to just set yourself tasks that you can achieve. You can set yourself up for failure and put additional pressure on yourself by setting mental deadlines. Try to concentrate on all the good things you have achieved and the good decisions you have made.
I think that getting a dog is a wonderful idea. I re-homed 2 rescued greyhounds and they have the most wonderful temprements. They love giving and receiving cuddles too.

garnettgirl

hi mupeteer, sorry you are having such a bad day today

Just wanted to say how lovely your doggy-to-be is

Lucy or Sophie come to mind as names and for some reason Grace or Ruby!

Apparently dogs most identify with a 2 syllable name (apparently) for hearing commands. (although Grace is obviously 1 syllable!)

I don't think she will cost a fortune - if you get any insurance from quidco and go onto the freebies board for dog food freebies, a couple of the companies send a sachet or 2 every couple of months if you remember to contact them. I once made a huge batch of liver dog treats, they stunk the house out whilst baking (pureed liver and flour - bleurgh) but they went down very well!!!!

bubbles0169

ah muppet hun its just one day in a few hours or tomorrow maybe youll feel different
werent you telling someone last night that we all have days like these;)
itll pass it just takes time, put a funny film on-NOT a rom com
and try to cheer up x
p.s yay to avi haha x

Buffythedebtslayer

bubbles0169 wrote: »

ah muppet hun its just one day in a few hours or tomorrow maybe youll feel different
werent you telling someone last night that we all have days like these;)
itll pass it just takes time, put a funny film on-NOT a rom com
and try to cheer up x
p.s yay to avi haha x

yep that was me!:j
xx