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It's not my first rodeo
Hello everyone, Welcome to my diary. I ve titled it "it's not my first rodeo" because, well... it's not. I have been here before. About ten years ago. I managed to pay off that debt and live relatively debt free for a few years with the help of these forums and diaries keeping me focused and on track. However, I started…
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Little by little, and with love
The title is both a reminder and pretty much what I've learned from *ahem* years on here! There's been a lot going on recently and I think it's finally time for a fresh start diary-wise as well as with some other parts of my life.
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Parking fine Bailiffs and breathing space
Hi all. I'm back on a debt free journey after being ridiculously bad with finances for most of my adult life. my current situation though is worse than any I've found myself in and i wondered if any of you wise lot can help me make sense of what to do. or if there is anything I can do even. I have just applied for…
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job offer
I have been trying to get a job with a certain company for over two years....Its hard to get into this company. In the mean time, my uncle had a friend who is a supervisor of another good company and it is my second choice. Well, I got an offer at the job my uncle's friend works at.....The job description says temporary,…
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Statement of Affairs - help me not let 2k grow back to 15k debt!
Hello I'm 40, single. Net income after tax, minimum pension etc is £2200/month My mortgage is £50k on a 200k place. 6 years to run. Fixed for the next year at 1%. I own an old-ish car outright. 8 years ago I was in 15k credit card debt following living in an expensive area then a rship breakdown and job loss. Plus general…
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Confessions of this Shopaholic
Hi guys, I’ve been lurking on these boards for a while now building
up the courage to start my own diary. Unfortunately, I am a self-confessed shopaholic. It is getting out of hand now, which is saying
something when you actually recognise it yourself! I’ve always been a spender, but I am now spending
beyond my means. My…
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dfw diary
Let this slide so bad so will be back in the New Year
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Sparkling my way to being debt free
Hi all An incredibly long time lurker. I am starting a diary to make myself accountable. I am an emotional spender and have a tendency of burying my head in the sand. I built up debt and then pay it down but have had what I hope to be my last light bulb moment when I actually opened my credit card statement in August and…
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Our journey from debtdom to freedom…take 4,5,6? I’ve lost count!!
CCs (0%) £22,147.26 Mortgage £224,346.23 Buy to Let Mortgage £146,574.32 Total £393,068 Restarted Jan 2019 1.87% paid off This was the last time I posted, in Jan 2019. The world has changed significantly for everyone since then and for us it’s been beyond challenging on a personal level. That said, we made some radical…
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Anyone else thinking they’ll have to remortgage just to live ??
Is anyone else thinking they’ll need to remortgage to cover the increasing bills?? I’m worried I won’t be able to sustain my family if everything keeps going up. We just about make ends meet as it is. I only have 3 years left on my mortgage but can barley afford all the general cost of living bills. I have been a nurse for…
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Debt...
I have fluid credit card debt - £3,398.55. owe sister debt - £3,581. owe paypal credit - £356.46. credit card should get cleared after 12-24 months. sister debt should get cleared after 14-26 months. paypal credit should get cleared after 10-18 months. I receive ESA and PIP. I earn amazon vouchers, paypal and…
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ADVICE NEEDED ON A DEBT NOT PAID FOR 3 YEARS
I would like some advice on a debt (old credit card debt that defaulted in 2011) that was passed onto a collection agency a few years ago. I have not made a payment for 3 years after having a letter from them to say that the debt could not be enforced, therefore I was hoping after 6 years (3 more to go) it would be statue…
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DIARY CLOSED - DEBT FREE IN SEPTEMBER 2022. I was in debt for 33 years.
Hi, all. A quick intro - 48 year old Dairy Farmer's Wife from gorgeous Pembrokeshire in SW Wales. Been in debt since the age of 18 (when I was offered an overdraft with a student bank account). Varying amounts over the years, and mostly always been paying well over the minimum amounts each month - EXCEPT for from 2003 when…
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Getting my life together before hitting the 'big' 3 0
I've always known how to budget and live within my means, which makes me even sillier for not getting it done! In 1 year and 8 months I'll be turning 30, and I want to enter that chapter of my life being well on my way to a frugal, financially independent future. The biggest flaw in this plan is that I have a chronic…
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Rescuing myself from drowning even deeper -
I've only just found the Forum and so wish I had done sooner, Overview - Married couple, moved into our 'forever' home in Feb 2020, Lockdown began March 2020, Baby 2 born June 2020, and heads in the sand from then until around March 2022. So turns out we had been spending and spending and spending, without stopping to…
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Scared & unsure
Hello, So I've got to a point where I just cannot continue the way I am but I'm really unsure about what my next step should be. I Currently get paid £1400 per month (I was promised a rise in Sept, back in March but haven't heard anything from by boss about that since) I have the following debts: Natwest cc £3690 Natwest…
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Desperate for change
Hi all, I am posting this in the hope for a little encouragement. I don't even feel that I can go into all the detail of how much debt I am in but I know it's about 60K+. I have a good job earning really good money. A house with a decent amount of equity and a good mortgage deal. But I am overdue on my credit cards, I have…
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Dancing through the rain with a smile and good cheer
The other titlel to this could be Dancing through the rain of debt and chronic illness but I am determined not to be negative. I have had a diary before Life begins at 45, this was my first post on 28th July 2014 just shy of three years, and well life didn't begin and has been quite static. I had high hopes..... This is…
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Climbing Out Of This £45,000 debt
So much debt! I am hoping this is as bad as it gets. It's
time for me to sort this mess out. My finances have
completely spiralled out of control over the past few years (especially in the last
12 months) and as I sit here today, I owe a staggering £45,362.67, mostly on
credit cards. In order of highest to lowest interest…
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DCAs, Bailiffs and HCEO
Can anyone tell me the differences between all of the above? I know a DCA only has power if we give it to them and are hired directly by clients. Are Bailifiss county court collecting CCJs only? Can they collect liability orders (which I believe are not CCJs) What does a High court enforcer do?
