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I can't have my H back in the house, what happen to mortgage?
I can't find any clear info on the internet about what happens to mortgages after separation? Surely loads of people go through this :/ Would the money we get from the house be split equal ways then the remaining amount to pay on the mortgage be split equal ways? Basically I'm trying to price out what I could afford to…
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sickness in the house
Hubby isn't well, he was up four times with the runs in the night and has been Ill as well today, but at work. He is in the lounge, in the dark, wrapped up to keep warm watching tv. I said to him about an hour ago that Apprentice was on at 9 for me watch it but to watch anything he liked before then, and I went in shower.…
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School Problem
Hi I'm posting this on behalf of my cousin, Nick. I wasn't sure what advice to give him so thought I'd ask here. Nick is separated from his partner and they do not have a great relationship. They have a son with whom Nick has regular (Court ordered) contact. Unfortunately his son's mother will not share any information she…
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the cost of christmas school concert.
The time has arrived when my girls have brought home what can only be described as a precise dress code for specific parts they are to play in the Christmas concert, they are doing a spin-off of the film Oliver. Dress code as requested for DD 1: Dark blue velvet jacket, Grey waist cost, blue button shirt, grey ankle length…
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Random parcels
I'm hoping someone can help me figure out what's going on. I've had some random parcels delivered today and I've no idea why or where or who they're from. First there were three from Argos. I did place an order with them last week but they said it had been cancelled due to a high volume of orders. Out of the half dozen or…
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Need a copy of an old will
Can anyone tell me an address where I can get a copy of a will that went to probate approx 25 years ago? I would be really grateful. Thank you
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Split of house costs
I wonder if someone could help me with the problem below. Me and my boyfriend currently live in his house. When he bought the house we agreed that I will pay a third of the mortgage and half the bills. At the time I was earning less, so his suggestion seemed wise. Now 2 years down the line, our salaries are the same. He is…
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A challenge for you - microwave meals for one with limited equipment
Hi. I stay away from home for work each week and am fed up with the hotel lifestyle, eating out is unhealthy and eating a sandwich in my room is sad. I've booked into a place which offers a microwave in the room (a full apartment now being out of my price range) and after Christmas I'll be there each week. So, I'm here for…
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UK nationals married abroad - do we need to register the marriage in the UK?
Hi guys We got married in Mauritius a while back and currently live abroad, but should we register our marriage back in the UK? We're both UK nationals (born in England) and will be going back once current work ends within a few years. Thanks
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Tinder - your thoughts/experiences?
I'm 30, single and looking for the kind of Love that will eventually lead to marriage and kids. I struggle to meet straight, single men who are looking for a real commitment. Actually, I struggle to meet men full stop. I've just wasted 8 months of my time on a man who I fell in love with but who is terrified of settling…
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Naming a third party in a divorce.
I work for a large university so often get to hear things! A lady of around my age (36) got a phone call out of the blue about a month ago from a women saying she had found my co workers number many times on her husbands mobile bill. She went on to say she had discovered her hubby had joined many dating sites and chatted…
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Initial appointment at CAMHS ?
Hi, just wondered if anyone had any experiences (good or bad) with camhs. Have finally come to terms with the fact DS needs help and we've been referred Feel exhausted and drained by ds's behaviour. School nurse has been working with him and has mentioned apergers/asd but said she could easily be wrong and it could be…
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make of boots for thin calves
This is one for ladies.. I am really struggling to find a make of boots for ladies with thin calves.. all pairs of boots (but one that I got in thrift shop on my visit to US years ago) I put on are massively gaping around my calves. Can anyone recommend some shop/make with boots that could fit me? Any experience? Thanks
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Always skint and have a 3 month old child. I need money advice
So, i'm 19 and have a 3 month old child who was not planned and i'm on a engineering apprenticeship. My money situation is so bad that i literally have no money to spend on anything and i'd like to change this so maybe i can help out the mother of my child a little bit. I get £410 a month. Its broken down like this £200 a…
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15 year olds no longer able to work at all?
Hi All, My 15 year old son is desperate to get a saturday job and has been asking around in shops for any vacancies, however the standard reply is "you have to be 16 to apply" he is getting very frustrated with it and I just want to find out if shops no longer take under 16s. I got a job when I was 14 in a shop but we are…
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happy 30th birthday.....here have a.....
SLOW COOKER!!!!! Its my 30th tomorrow and I've been with my partner for 13 years. We have 2 kids. He took my oldest out the other day to get me a present and I've just found the receipt. He has bought me a box of milk tray from the kids and a SLOW COOKER!!!!! Yes I wanted one, but not for my bl**ody birthday!!!!!! Thing is…
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Househol monthly spending
It's my first post here, so hi everyone and I'm hoping this thread is in the right area of the forum... Basically, in my house I'm a 'Head of Finance', so I'm looking at how much money is coming in and going out and making sure our Household is making 'Profit'. I was just wondering though, how do our household's outgoings…
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I'm going to be homeless at Christmas. I need help sorting everything out.
Okay, so I'm struggling a lot and I don't know what to ask for. I have a few health problems...bipolar depression and fibromyalgia being the main two. Back in 2006, my parents made me homeless. They were often violent and have relatively severe mental health issues. I haven't seen them since. I found a friend of a friend…
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Helping a Friend In Need
All, Just want your opinions on this. My friend is about to break up with his wife of 7 years and obviously is in a very difficult place at the moment. He is one of my good friends and has been there for me in some difficult times. Anyway, I have recently got a place of my own after house sharing for pretty much the last…
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Home Educating 16 Year Old Son
Good morning To make a long story short my son has been having serious anxiety issues, it started mainly with not being able to go in a car as he was sure he would be sick then OCD. Basically he has not been to school since Dec 2013. I was in contact with the school and LEA immediately and managed to get him to the…
