Concerns About Friends Behaviour

I'm getting tired of some forum members comparing me to this blue lass person. For one thing Im originally from Sheffield and can't afford designer clothes. I texted my OH on my way home today and told him we must talk about this and if not I will leave. I spoke to a lady at work I have known for many years who is a trusted colleague to many on my break. She said have you not heard of sadie Hartley? And said I must take this seriously. I read about the sadie case on my phone on the train journey home and I see she was killed by a jealous obsessive. When I got home earlier I went to find our wheelie bin to put it back in its normal place and a neighbour who works from home and lives across the road asked if everything was alright. He said a man knocked on a few doors on the road including his and asked when my OH usually gets home. No one said anything to him. It now seems clear this man is going to call at ours and tell me they have been seeing one another. My OH told me the man was never part of the pubs social circle. He just stood on his own drinking and people used to say hi to him but that was all. For some reason my OH got talking to him and this man misinterpreted it as mutual attraction. My OH said because he comes across as a very nice person this man must have wanted to cling to him. My OH is no Brad or Clooney but isn't bug ugly either and this man is pitiful looking. My OH also said the man stared wearing better clothes and aftershave after a few months of meeting him. Also he was using cosmetics to try to cover his rosacea (he told my OH he had rosacea and was embarrassed about it). He also told my other half he had been bullied in child and adulthood because of his skin complaint. I noticed this man also speaks strange. He kicks his lips often whilst speaking and sticks his tongue out too. That does not give him the right to try to infiltrate and disrupt a marriage because of envy though. And I am going to insist on at least logging thsee incidents at our local police station even if OH thinks it's unnecessary. If and when the police speak to this man I think he will try and turn it round on my OH or himself though.

Oops sorry I meant my post with try to turn it round on me also. My OH spoke to me a few minutes and I told him what our neighbour said. OH doesn't think the man is dangerous just jealous. I said I beg to differ and it has to end. OH said before the man revealed his feelings before Christmas he asked my OH if he could start coming to our house for his tea on his days off. OH was going to say yes! I'm know very concerned as we don't invite relatives for tea never mind strange men. I told OH if you need to tell me something do it now before I involve the police and we both get embarrassed.