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  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    Morning all hope your all ok, Im mad busy working this morning :(

    Love hugs and kisses

    Steph xx
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    Thank you for your replies

    I have two things bringing me down which is magnifying the feelings I have. I feel any service is for people who don't have money and I obviously have some. I really CANNOT tolerate noisy places, even hotels mess me up. There is a flat I could take on but I am terrified of living somewhere attached. I have been bullied by noisy neighbours until last year and even the neighbour there kept coming into our garden till my OH told him to keep out.

    My best bet is to find a quiet home using my own money. My family can help financially but I will have to give up my soul for this, so if I stay, I have to watch how I am and if I go, I am going to have to pay in other ways. I can't win. Then I have to face this cold faceless false world trying to make friends and find work or make a living.

    The only way to get a quiet reasonable home is to share with my OH or downsize and live in a noisy chavvy area. I am trapped. I can't see how a refuge can help someone like me, it will be noisy and I have too much money. I would be swapping one set of hell for another.

    I will get over this cold and my leg, then I will be strong enough to either bite the bullet and leave, using my money, and resisting the negative comments about not being able to make it or be able to tolerate his/her horrible behaviour.

    All I need is one person I can trust, someone who can support me emotionally and not let me down. I have more chance of winning the jackpot on the lottery.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote: »
    Thank you for your replies

    I have two things bringing me down which is magnifying the feelings I have. I feel any service is for people who don't have money and I obviously have some. I really CANNOT tolerate noisy places, even hotels mess me up. There is a flat I could take on but I am terrified of living somewhere attached. I have been bullied by noisy neighbours until last year and even the neighbour there kept coming into our garden till my OH told him to keep out.

    My best bet is to find a quiet home using my own money. My family can help financially but I will have to give up my soul for this, so if I stay, I have to watch how I am and if I go, I am going to have to pay in other ways. I can't win. Then I have to face this cold faceless false world trying to make friends and find work or make a living.

    The only way to get a quiet reasonable home is to share with my OH or downsize and live in a noisy chavvy area. I am trapped. I can't see how a refuge can help someone like me, it will be noisy and I have too much money. I would be swapping one set of hell for another.

    I will get over this cold and my leg, then I will be strong enough to either bite the bullet and leave, using my money, and resisting the negative comments about not being able to make it or be able to tolerate his/her horrible behaviour.

    All I need is one person I can trust, someone who can support me emotionally and not let me down. I have more chance of winning the jackpot on the lottery.

    *hugs* CCStar sorry to hear about this,just do what you think is best in the long run for you :)


    love and light,

    Katie xxx
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    :hello: Everyone,

    Morning! Hope everyone is ok :) I am fine :) off to my parents for lunch today and then tonight is the presentation of my certificate,I cant wait :)

    I hope you all have a lovely day

    *hugs* to those that need one


    love and light,

    Katie xxx
  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    I am off now,

    chat later everyone

    love and light,

    Katie xxx
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Tulip wrote: »
    :hello: Everyone,

    Morning! Hope everyone is ok :) I am fine :) off to my parents for lunch today and then tonight is the presentation of my certificate,I cant wait :)

    I hope you all have a lovely day

    *hugs* to those that need one


    love and light,

    Katie xxx
    have a great day katie,
    hugs
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • alba37
    alba37 Posts: 2,616 Forumite
    CCStar wrote: »
    Thank you for your replies

    I have two things bringing me down which is magnifying the feelings I have. I feel any service is for people who don't have money and I obviously have some. I really CANNOT tolerate noisy places, even hotels mess me up. There is a flat I could take on but I am terrified of living somewhere attached. I have been bullied by noisy neighbours until last year and even the neighbour there kept coming into our garden till my OH told him to keep out.

    My best bet is to find a quiet home using my own money. My family can help financially but I will have to give up my soul for this, so if I stay, I have to watch how I am and if I go, I am going to have to pay in other ways. I can't win. Then I have to face this cold faceless false world trying to make friends and find work or make a living.

    The only way to get a quiet reasonable home is to share with my OH or downsize and live in a noisy chavvy area. I am trapped. I can't see how a refuge can help someone like me, it will be noisy and I have too much money. I would be swapping one set of hell for another.

    I will get over this cold and my leg, then I will be strong enough to either bite the bullet and leave, using my money, and resisting the negative comments about not being able to make it or be able to tolerate his/her horrible behaviour.

    All I need is one person I can trust, someone who can support me emotionally and not let me down. I have more chance of winning the jackpot on the lottery.

    (((hugs)) CCStar, you're in a complicated and difficult situation. What I mean is there are no clear answers to it, and it's obviously bringing you down. My experience is you can only stay in an unhappy relationship for so long. Also the alternatives are normally not great or easy either. As Katie said you can only weigh up your options and do what seems best for you.

    I think it will take time and a lot of thought. I really don't think money or lack of it helps, either way there seem to be many difficulities in our way.

    I know it's not a great consolation, but they are lots of people you can trust here. You can pm or email me anytime.

    A x
  • gillette147
    gillette147 Posts: 13,296 Forumite
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    Hi folkes,

    I hope you are all being good to yourselves xxx

    I'm probably going to stop coming on here.
    I have just handed my notice in at the MSE Arms. I don't know whether continuing to post in here will be too tempting. No such thing as a half drug addict.....so can I log in, post here and leave? Hmmm.

    I'm in such a funny mood.
    I get so much from MSE but it comes at a huge cost. In my way I give my soul on here and the place sucks the life from me and hurts me at times.

    I always read this thread but I only comment when I feel I can help. But I think you can cope without me. Others are the real hub of the thread so I know you are in safe hands.

    No fuss. This is a healthy action.
    I want to thank you all for allowing me to post here. This thread holds my proudest MSE moments.

    I love and send my love to you all

    R xxx
    Girls are gonna love the way I toss my hair. Boys are gonna hate the way I seem.

    I would rather drown with you than watch the surf with someone else
  • alba37
    alba37 Posts: 2,616 Forumite
    Didn't say morning to everyone :wave: and it's now the afternoon! :D

    Hope you are all ok today.

    Will be thinking about you tonight Katie!

    I'm off out so may not get back on today, will catch you all soon.

    A x
  • alba37
    alba37 Posts: 2,616 Forumite
    gillette147 wrote: »
    Hi folkes,

    I hope you are all being good to yourselves xxx

    I'm probably going to stop coming on here.
    I have just handed my notice in at the MSE Arms. I don't know whether continuing to post in here will be too tempting. No such thing as a half drug addict.....so can I log in, post here and leave? Hmmm.

    I'm in such a funny mood.
    I get so much from MSE but it comes at a huge cost. In my way I give my soul on here and the place sucks the life from me and hurts me at times.

    I always read this thread but I only comment when I feel I can help. But I think you can cope without me. Others are the real hub of the thread so I know you are in safe hands.

    No fuss. This is a healthy action.
    I want to thank you all for allowing me to post here. This thread holds my proudest MSE moments.

    I love and send my love to you all

    R xxx

    Hi R!

    This doesn't sound too good to me! I would rather you stayed around. But I understand you have to do what's best for you.

    Just wanted to say, have a good think about it... hopefully you'll change your mind. But if not always feel free to come back anytime....

    Take care,

    A x x x
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