I'm sorry, I'm letting everyone down.

yellowmonkey wrote: »

Time to get back to life and stop taking sides in the playground me thinks

Is that aimed at me? I find that a bit offensive - I haven't stooped to childishness, only calmly expressed an opinion.

rayday2 wrote: »

I genuinely do not want my name bound around, if this was a newspaper I would sue I am so mad I am shaking and bordering on tears because I have done nothing wrong.

I do not deserve to be talked about at all and actually feel I need an apology - for being dragged into someones grand leaving topic!

You're kidding me? Well obviously not or you wouldn't have posted it!

I unreservedly apologise for assuming you wouldn't mind

I suppose I assumed your position would be the same as mine - I've made comments on a public message board and so my name is already to them and so they are up for discussion, even if people may have taken those comments in a way differently from how I meant them.

A timely reminder to me that just because I have a stance then I shouldn't assume others would have the same stance

Sou

yellowmonkey wrote: »

Sorry did not realise that we had to show a certain person " Respect ".

Now, I havent read any further than this and I already feel the need to comment.

Why the *tone* YM ~ I really do hope that you're not trying to pick an argument with me?!?! You have you opinion and I have mine, I didnt use that *tone* with you, please do the same.

And YES we do have to show a certain person respect, EVERY certain person, did you not learn that at a young age?

boredofbeingathome wrote: »

I have to say i have never found a negative post by you rayday..the only ones i have seen have been very helpful and solid advice.I hope you manage to get it sorted.

I agree, me too...

Hello people, long time no see

Having read some of this thread (not all admitted) i must admit its like ive landed on another planet, what has happened to you all!

Anyways lets stop the pointless arguing, no one needs it, i can honestly say from experience the DFW post based on their honest opinion of what is best for someone, that is the strength of this board, and i guess a weakness.

I must admit too much of this particular board is bad for you, for all the good it gives everyone, there is a bad side.

Concentrate too much on debt and your wishing your life away, living from one paycheque too the next, just so you can see some numbers going down.

I however applaud anyone who does this, it takes determination, will power and persistance to go for any length of time as a DFW, also it becomes a knowledge trip where you start to really see that all the physical possessions, ultimately are meaningless.

IAs tattoo is different, that is a gesture of expression, one that is more meaningful that a plasma telly or games console, so anyone who criticises that is being OTT.

I appreciate getting out of debt is everyones main motive for being on this board, but I also appreciate not everything you hear will be a boost to your ego, however ultimately we do get back what we put into things so remember that, be nice, make the most of what you have, and enjoy life.