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  • pania
    pania Posts: 8,258 Forumite
    Fermi can you not lock this thread?
    debt @05/11/11 £12210.63!! slowly chipping away!!
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  • yellowmonkey
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    tigtag02 wrote: »
    I also apologies for a public row but I will not sit by and be accused of being a liar.

    Refer post 194
  • daphne_descends
    daphne_descends Posts: 2,517 Forumite
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    All of you, stop! This is making DFW look like !!!! to be honest. I certainly don't want to be here. No wonder IA is unsure about being here herself.
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    ignore this
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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Originally Posted by tigtag02 viewpost.gif
    Rayday was mentioned because she only ever posts on IA's thread to critisize. Regardless of how great she is elsewhere she is doesnt treat IA with the same *respect*.

    And in my defence My lord I present the above

    I never denied that said the above and I obviously didnt deleted it otherwise you wouldnt be able to quoteit now :rolleyes:

    HOWEVER, you then said this :
    Originally Posted by yellowmonkey viewpost.gif
    Sorry did not realise that we had to show a certain person " Respect ".

    in reponse to what I said and then said that it was what I said.

    You are obviously getting all mixed up in the heat of them moment YM but I do urge you to reread things.
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  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Tigtag just informed me what was going on and I had to come back and see for myself as couldn't believe that something could go downhill like this. I NEVER intended for this thread to degenerate into an argument like this and I wish I'd have just gone and not posted it as it would've saved a lot of heartache.
    I'm sorry for starting the thread.
    Rayday, I am sorry that you feel you've been in any way victimised. Maybe I didn't explain myself properly. I meant that whenever you post/reply to any of my posts you are always critiscising me, or at least that is how it feels.
    I refuse to apologise to anyone who has called me selfish, accused me of illintentions by starting this thread or has implied I'm being attention seeking by returning to this thread after I said I was going. Fact is I know that MSE is a big part of my life and still in 2 minds about it as it's a big jump to go from MSE being such a massive part of my life to being driven out and having nothing. I have been lurking and still trying to make my mind up as to whether I'm going to allow myself to be pushed out by the minority who have picked on me.

    I don't want to leave, but all I seemed to have done is kicked up a whole load of crap that I didn't mean to and caused people to fall out with each other.

    For that I am really, really sorry.
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  • yellowmonkey
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    tigtag02 wrote: »
    I never denied that said the above and I obviously didnt deleted it otherwise you wouldnt be able to quoteit now :rolleyes:

    HOWEVER, you then said this :



    in reponse to what I said and then said that it was what I said.

    You are obviously getting all mixed up in the heat of them moment YM but I do urge you to reread things.

    Please in my defence read the above posts. I am off and good luck to you all on your social threads. I have been called a liar and incompetent in my job. That is something I will not tolerate on a public forum and makes me feel like S**t. If you read all of the posts I have stuck my head out of the trench to defend someone who, I believe , was being unjustly accussed.

    Welcome to the new DFW thread.

    Thanks Tigtag

    ym
  • rayday2
    rayday2 Posts: 3,960 Forumite
    Rayday, I am sorry that you feel you've been in any way victimised. Maybe I didn't explain myself properly. I meant that whenever you post/reply to any of my posts you are always critiscising me, or at least that is how it feels.

    I thank you for that and accept your apology.

    I hope that those who thanked you and agreed with you realise that it was your misunderstandings.

    I am a very straight genuine person I do not dress comments up, what I post is my honesty.

    I don't go in for long chit chat topics as you must know because I don't bother with daily chat etc that is nothing against the board I just feel the arms is the place for all that.

    You will also know that diaries are of no interest to me and I was totally confused by this topic as I don't read diaries!

    So I feel very unfairly treated at this moment in time but am prepared to put a line under it.

    I never begged for you to stay as I am a member of lots of forums, even moderate a couple and its true to say that huge grand leavers always come back!
  • daphne_descends
    daphne_descends Posts: 2,517 Forumite
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    I don't want to leave

    Then don't, come for a cocktail on the daily chat and show us your tattoo :)
    For that I am really, really sorry.

    I am sure I'm not alone in thinking you have nothing to apologise for?

    Yellowmonkey

    You weren't called incompetent, or a liar as far as I can see?

    Don't overreact; can't you - and others - accept this got out of hand unnecessarily? Can all this not be left behind?

    :grouphug:
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    rayday2 wrote: »
    I never begged for you to stay as I am a member of lots of forums, even moderate a couple and its true to say that huge grand leavers always come back!
    Not quite sure how you mean by a 'huge grand leaver' but not going to dwell...
    If that is the case then you'll understand why I have been unsure of mind when it came to leaving. MSE has been a major part of my life for nearly 2 years so if that makes me a 'huge grand leaver' then so be it.
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