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It!!!8217;s part of my professional responsibility to see through people!!!8217;s lies and make a judgment about what is really going on, but I can!!!8217;t make them tell me the truth, any more than you can.
I sometimes (politely, professionally) let them know that I know what they are trying to sell me a load of codswallop, but that is usually in the same sentence as informing them that I am going to act on my suspicion.
In my personal life, I obviously still see through people!!!8217;s obfuscation, but then I just smile and nod, because there is absolutely nothing I can do about it.0 -
For past 3 hours I have heard multiple male voices laughing, clapping, "whooping" and stomping as well as some running.
So much for her away till tonight! Either she was lying or she gave her spare keys to "friends" who are using it as a place to crash and be noisy. Fed up with this, its not be being sensitive a friernd came round on Friday night and he almost jumped out of his skin at the noise at one point when he heard a massive crash, thought someone chucked something at my window.0 -
Had enough of them, after now 14 days of noise I told council and got a cheeky note through my door stating they are having a party AS THEY HAVE A RIGHT TO DO.
In response have turned my speakers up to 1/3 of max (which is loud enough to sound like a nightclub) just for 10 minutes, lets see how they like it, if they complain I will tell them I am having a party as I have a right to do.
If this noise deafens me imagine how angry they will be.0 -
Last night, a nightmare noise did only go on to 10pm but it was far far noisy than usual, so much so I had a terrible nights sleep and had to take a day off college, this morning its noise far above and beyond the past as well, the mediation team phoned me and said the neighbour has refused mediation, she cant tell me why but its obvious it won't happen now.0
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time to move perhaps? If your not going to, then nothing more you can do"It is prudent when shopping for something important, not to limit yourself to Pound land/Estate Agents"
G_M/ Bowlhead99 RIP0 -
Im so sorry that I am a considerate neighbour and have been kept awake to 4.30am on more than one occasion by HER having a party. - People have parties.
Im so sorry that I nicely let it slide and the times I have gone to speak to her AS SHE TOLD ME TO DO, she doesn't answer the door, - so she's inconsiderate, millions of people are
Im so sorry as she admitted she never hears any noise from me at all. - So?
Im so sorry that I was woken at 8.30am on MY DAY OFF by kids screaming and running about on laminate flooring which is BANNED - kids running around is banned?.....
Im so sorry that I have to put up with her having a dog which is BANNED in new council tenancies. - but not in her tenancy?
Im so sorry that when she has guests round with kids my lightshade shakes back and forth and stuff falls out of cupboards
Everythings my fault right?!
Not saying it's your fault. Sometimes these things happen. You need to decide whether moving is the best solution.0 -
Last night, a nightmare noise did only go on to 10pm but it was far far noisy than usual, so much so I had a terrible nights sleep and had to take a day off college, this morning its noise far above and beyond the past as well, the mediation team phoned me and said the neighbour has refused mediation, she cant tell me why but its obvious it won't happen now.
Actually the fact that the neighbour has refused mediation shows that she is only interested in herself. I don't know what the council will think of her refusal. You will have to wait and see what they think they want to do next. They would not have offered it if they didn't think that there was a problem.0 -
Not saying it's your fault. Sometimes these things happen. You need to decide whether moving is the best solution.
Kids arent banned from running, laminate is banned, dogs are banned in her tenancy, I have no issue with parties or even people being up all night, everyone needs to unwind now and again but its the lack of respect hence also the fact I am considerate, she feels she can have a party or gangs of people round whenever she wants as is her right she says (which isn't actually wrong)
About the door, she told me rather than go to council go to the door and tell her and she will be quieter, but every time I do she never answers, which she seperate told me she never answers as shes at work and its just the babysitter in, or claims to be not in the house which is when she deflects the noise to saying its the couple above her.
It is however considering in the time I lived here I never heard the neighbour above hers dog barking in my property, and only when I arrived back a few days after she got a dog has it been ongoing, im a patient person it just feels she thinks as a single mother she is the victim in things despite saying she never once hears noise from me (and admitting she gets heavy noise from her upstairs neighbours all the time)0
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