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  • Titch89
    Titch89 Posts: 712 Forumite
    It has nothing to do with DLA whether your partner works or not.
  • SuziQ
    SuziQ Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    Hope things have settled down. Surely his boss could talk to the apprentices or arrange a meeting between them all so they can be reassured re his 'moods'-lets face it,plenty of people with no mental health issues can be difficult to work with-and they have no excuse,so your other half needs to know that he is not a bad person but very much at the mercy of his mood that day.Wish you both all the luck in the world.
    Tomorrow is always fresh, with no mistakes in it!
  • Titch89 wrote: »
    It has nothing to do with DLA whether your partner works or not.

    he is claiming DLA at moment also im claiming carers for him .. DLA have said he may not be entitled to DLA now he is working as there is a change in his circumstances ( change in his circumstance yes but not his health) he only filled in his renewal in march, He was told he would get it by the People that were helping him get back into work.. carers have said as long as he is getting dla i will have carers
    £2 savers club -- £2 (£60 banked)/ 20p savers club -- 20p (£12 banked) started 13/03/2008 :j 5p/2p/1p/ -£5.10
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  • SuziQ wrote: »
    Hope things have settled down. Surely his boss could talk to the apprentices or arrange a meeting between them all so they can be reassured re his 'moods'-lets face it,plenty of people with no mental health issues can be difficult to work with-and they have no excuse,so your other half needs to know that he is not a bad person but very much at the mercy of his mood that day.Wish you both all the luck in the world.

    his boss has explained to the apprenticies but they are only 16 so they not really interested i have told him hes not bad but once he has got this into his head it talkes hell of a lot convincing him otherwise
    £2 savers club -- £2 (£60 banked)/ 20p savers club -- 20p (£12 banked) started 13/03/2008 :j 5p/2p/1p/ -£5.10
    onepoll £11.40 / you gov £1 / pigsback £1.25 / cashback £5.02
  • welll have finally heard from DLA ..... my partner is no longer entitled to DLA
    His money has been stopped from the 17th of this month ... according to them he needs no help whatsoever ....they say he is not at risk of self harm (he suffers bipolar and has suicidal tendancys) and he doesnt need any care. so what do they call it when im the one ...trying to pick him back up when he has a really bad day at work comes in feeling very low, no self esteem and just wants to die .... and he like this all through the night not sleeping.. he then has to go work next morning exhausted worn out after having no sleep and then doing a full days work
    £2 savers club -- £2 (£60 banked)/ 20p savers club -- 20p (£12 banked) started 13/03/2008 :j 5p/2p/1p/ -£5.10
    onepoll £11.40 / you gov £1 / pigsback £1.25 / cashback £5.02
  • Titch89
    Titch89 Posts: 712 Forumite
    Get them to look at it again if you believe their decision wrong.
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