what would you do?

paradiddle_2

quick update - price is dropped to roughly about right (perhaps 2K high, but that's bargaining fodder anyway for buyer). But then a dead stop on any progress.

Problem is, she lies through her teeth to her solicitor, and I get accused of all sorts of things I've not done again. Mine has basically reached the end of what can be done. The ex-OH is now even 'stealing' back knickers from my drawers because she bought them. Stuff is dissappearing from the house, somehow, put it that way. I have absolutely no quality of life at all like this, and my health is really taking a beating. Prob is, if I move out, lover boy will move into a house I'm paying for, and for an indefinite period of time.

Do I now push the issue of buying her out, sit tight for three years until the mortgage is up, then sell up? OR live though absolute hell until a buyer appears.

I tell you folks, until you've had to live like this, you cannot imagine how horrendous is is.

poppysarah

For your sanity you need to get this resolved within the next 6 weeks. The way to do this is to sell it for a good bit lower than you want to.

Ring the estate agent and ask them how much you need to price it at for a quick sale.

Seriously you are better moving to somewhere where they don't know where you live.

Your EA will know people buying still.

Staying safe and sane is more important than money.

the_bread_baron

paradiddle wrote: »

I've split with my partner earlier this year (her choice with crazy reasons) and we're still living togethe (she refuses to move out, I need my equity share to be able to buy). We've been in the house since Autumn last year.

I can afford to buy her out, as its mainly in my name, but she can't afford to buy me out. Her family have told the ex-OH that if I buy the house, they'll kill themselves. SOOOOooo....!

The house has been on the market for two and a half months at top money (again, her choice and hence only two viewings) and I'm fighting to get it pushed down through my solicitor, so I can get rid of them. Need I say, the family, are a nightmare.

What would you do or advise? wait until it sells; or wait, perhaps take a hit and buy it out later in the year if it doesn't go by -say- July; or push to buy it out now; or have another idea?

if your not married - kick her out. lower price.
go to australia or canada. they like british accents there.