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Daily chat thread Saturday 17th May

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  • boredofbeingathome
    boredofbeingathome Posts: 15,657 Forumite
    Perhaps it's just sunk in a havent really got any 'friends' I can depend on.

    (close by I mean)

    They probably don't know what to do, and may have a genuine reason. Just ask them then make up your mind after.
    It is also because you are a dynamo at organising, and have probably given them the impression you are coping better than they realise.
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • bubbles0169
    bubbles0169 Posts: 6,230 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    bunny
    its not you
    i have the same thing with my 'friends'
    and we are not bad people they, are if they say they'r goin to come they should have
    oh i dont know i dont understand it either
    i like snags idea!

    but for some reason we have to make the effort !!!!!!'s that all about i dont know but at least we have this place
    reiterate- we shall meet up
    somewhere inbetween us x
    I am not bossy I just have better ideas:p
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,765 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Awww bunny, sorry its so tough at the mo.
    Huggles hun
    it does get better,take care
    Lou xx
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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    I can't go back to Canada-I couldn't ever take the kids away from Scott and their Grandparents.

    So, that idea is shot.

    I hate having to beg for my friends to realise im hurting-surely it should be obvious.
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Bunny, people always say you should make lists at times like this, so here are a couple about your life:

    Good things

    2 gorgeous children
    a nice home
    a job you like
    lots of friends
    bubbly personality
    lots of people who love you
    an amicable relationship with your ex
    intelligence
    freedom
    attractiveness
    great tits :p

    Not so good things

    recent break-up
    feeling sad
    loneliness
    unsure who your real friends are
    not quite sure what path your life is taking

    I'm sure you could add many more to both lists, but look at the 'good things' list - they are things that you will always have (well, the tits will sag eventually :rotfl:).

    The 'not so good things' list is full of things that are just temporary, and when they pass, you will still have all the good things (and possibly a few new not so good things, but that's just life, lol).

    Give it time - you knew it would be hard, but you are coping really well and things will start to get easier before long.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Snags,
    You always know what to say, thank you. x
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • boredofbeingathome
    boredofbeingathome Posts: 15,657 Forumite
    Bob, looks suspiciously at her tits sagging to belly button..puts on glasses and begins to compose list of stuff.:rotfl: :rotfl:
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    My tits ARE sagging, I just wear bras one size too small so they look perky, lol
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    My tits ARE sagging, I just wear bras one size too small so they look perky, lol
    Me too babe.....but what's a saggy boob or two between friends eh? :D
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • boredofbeingathome
    boredofbeingathome Posts: 15,657 Forumite
    My tits ARE sagging, I just wear bras one size too small so they look perky, lol

    Never thought of that one:rotfl: :rotfl: :T
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
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